Don't remember the specifics but I think he made a social media post or something that blew up in his country and meet lots of kind people.

Option your story to be made into a film.

Wait, that would just make things worse...never mind.

whoa you become a superstar??? may i have your autograph  

Maybe Twitter can help. Lots of supportive people there.

Everything will be alright, Patrick.

Ignoring the hate comments may be hard, but it's the only thing you can do. Whenever you get upset about such a comment, try to remember this: the good outweighs the bad, there are way more people who admire you than people who hate you. Also, these hate comments tell more about the person who writes them than about you. Some people don't realise the consequences their words can have. They feel protected by the anonimity that they have on the internet. They are always trying to hurt others. Their hate is usually a lot less genuine than all the positive stuff that other people say about you. You're putting a lot of effort into helping others, and you can only be proud of that.

I'm sorry to hear that. I'm no profissional in any way but I've read about how exercises and meditation could help. The  anxiety is, in some sort, a lack of confidence.

You might try to start running in your neighbour twice a week to get more confidence; say 'hello' to some strangers while at it. I think it you will grow your confidence day by day, little by little and, in the end, you'll regain it.

Meditation could help too. It seems there are some researchs that corroborate that meditation is beneficial. I started reading this book: The confidence gap. Taking a class would be nice because of the new people you would meet.

In the end, what I really thing is that we overestimate the negative things people think of us. Most of the time they, in fact, don't care who you are or what you did. They can say something at the moment but if you don't  have an agressive response, they just let it go.

I wish you the best.

Thanks man, I really appreciate it. You shouldn't compare your problems with others, if you got issues you need to talk about, I am more than willing to listen too. 

I know fully well, that me having no friends at the moment is my own fault. Could I go back I would have done a lot of things differently. There is actually a story behind my username, my ex-girlfriend's last name was Lord and my middle name is Lichtenstein. 

Instead of me avoiding the reason, I will make a post about what I did/do. No, I'm actually from Denmark.

I have made multiple posts on my SoMe accounts, telling people to stop threatening and harassing me. But it seems it just encourages people even more. It's fucking weird..

Exactly Jason. I will make a post about it in a sec.

I never got into Twitter. I only use Facebook and Instagram.

Thanks Vivster. :)

I totally get everything you are saying, it's just, sometimes it gets to me. Last night I was in a vulnerable spot..

It is funny you should mention it, because of my ADD I recently started meditating and doing yoga. As of right now it hasn't had an effect, but hopefully it will in a month or two. Thanks man. 

Not a day goes by when I don't think about quitting, but I also feel a certain kind of responsibility, if that makes sense? I have a platform right now and I have shown that I can make a difference. I is hard to let that go, knowing you could have helped someone, but you didn't.

Wait are you the fat dancing man?

Fuck it. Just be yourself the most you can in your situation and live a relatively normal. Keanu Reeves takes the subway, walks around as a normal guy and most people don't recognize him but he doesn't wear outlandish clothes.

“I am desperate to meet new friends. I’m lonely and going through the hardest period of my life. I’ll sit on the stairs in front of the town hall from 2pm to 8pm. I have black pants and a North Face bag on.” – written December 7th 2016.

I wrote this message on an app called Jodel, a European equivalent of Yik Yak. It is an anonymous forum, where you can write about almost anything and where anyone within 10 kilometers can see your message and reply. I had no idea at the time, that this very short message would fundamentally change my life as well as thousands of others.

I have lived more than half of my childhood and youth life in orphanages. An anxious upbringing with defeat, insecurity and violent assaults that have made me the person I am today; a person with very poor self-esteem and a deep inner sense of identitylessness. In September of 2016 my girlfriend of 6 years cheated on me and left me shortly after. My whole world came crumbling down and I was on the edge of suicide, and I got admitted to the local psychiatric hospital, but was released after an intense week of care and treatment.

I never had many friends and those few I had, I stopped seeing after my now ex-girlfriend and I got together back in 2010. I know, stupid. But there I was – with no family, friends or girlfriend. I was all alone. And in my desperation, I decided to write and send out the message you see above.



A lot of people read my cry for help and came to my aid – no less than 13 strangers decided to show up and give their support. I was so overwhelmed with joy, that I had to fight back tears. Many of them confided in me throughout the evening and told me that they too had felt the heart-wrenching pain of loneliness, but were too afraid of reaching out because of the stigma surrounding it.

The meeting went viral in Denmark and the next day I was contacted by Radio24syv, one of the largest public service radio stations in Denmark. I was also contacted by the biggest TV stations as well as numerous papers. 

At first I declined their offers, as I was afraid of the stigma and taboo, but after much serious thought, I decided to tell my story – not for myself, but for the good of others. I knew something had to be done about the increasing loneliness rates in Denmark (statistics show, that more than 350.000 Danes often feel lonely), so I took it upon myself to make a change.



I then started a free nationwide peer-to-peer network/nonprofit organization where lonely people could find new friends and someone who they could relate to. A network where you were applauded for showing your weaknesses and vulnerability. A network where we as a community would stand together against the taboo that is loneliness.



To help new members getting settled, I would invite them into my home each week for dinner, game nights or parties. It was very important to me, that every member had a good first time experience and would leave feeling part of a community.

By March 2017 (4 months after launch) the network had grown to 10.000 members and I had made the decision to drop out of my education as a programmer. It was not an easy decision, but a necessary one, as I wanted to commit 100% to my voluntary work.



In April 2017 I raised awareness about loneliness and mental health in Denmark by completing a 300 km relay walk from Copenhagen to Aarhus over the course of 10 days. The concept was; that under no circumstances was I allowed to walk, unless accompanied by another person. Through my walk I wanted to emphasize the importance of human interaction, social responsibility and community. Luckily for me, more than 70 people chose to support my cause by either walking with me or offering me accommodation and food. I only had to stand still twice during my walk, which was better than expected. 

All my efforts has since made the ambassador of the People's Movement Against Loneliness, one of Denmark's largest associations. Together we have decided to make 'March Against Loneliness' an annual event. 

A few months ago i completed this year's March Against Loneliness with the help of 350 people, an increase of 400% from last year's walk.