Hey man, you know it's a sad day when a weeb's waifu cheats on them.

If you truly believe that you had the best of intentions, and you did indeed "stop" the kiss from proceeding, then I don't think it's a problem to keep things from getting messy. You are young and still in school, which is a time when that sort of behavior is excusable.

On the other hand, if you believe that you made a mistake and the girl deserves better, then you should probably let her know. Some things are better when kept secret.

I'd forgive someone over kissing, in fact I don't even think it would hurt me much.

A quick way to end the relationship. I'm not sure about the morals of this. I have never been in such a situation so the question is: does cheating hurt more than just ending the relationship just so you can fuck someone else? Sounds equally painful to me.

Tell her.

Cheating at all is the worst breach of trust in a relationship. If she’s as conservative as you say, she’ll probably get mad and hopefully leave you. I have absolutely no sympathy for cheaters -with the exclusion of very extreme circumstances, of which you are not apart of. You were being stupid, shouldn’t have been drinking or doing whatever it was you were -neither are real excuses.

I’ve been cheated on enough in the past to think if it happens once, it’ll never happen again. It’s a naive thought -one perhaps your girlfriend will have. Nowadays if someone cheats, I leave immediately -no questions asked. Unless you were in an open relationship or whatever, it’s not okay -and from how you’re acting, there’s a 100% it isn’t open. Be a man and face the consequences of making bad decisions.

People are not perfect and a girl kissed him while he was very drunk etc. so its not that black and white, however telling is probable better than feeling guilty and wondering when she is going to find out. And if they haven´t even talked on what is accepted and what is off limits then its even more on the grey area. For many just a quick kiss isn´t that big of a deal, but everyone is different. I woulnd´t be mad about that.

Everyone plays a different game... is it in the rules? Your guilt suggests you expect better... so she deserves better... but I'd ask her first....................

Simple, just end it with a simple phone call right before you get with it lol.

What is this jumbled up mess of word vomit trying to convey? Whatever message it is, it isn’t convincing.

1. People like you, me and everyone else are not perfect. People make mistakes.

2. He (the person who made this thread) said that he was drunk etc. and a girl kissed him.

3. He clearly feels bad for doing it and also for keeping it secret.

4. He should tell his girlfriend about what happened, instead of feeling bad and waiting for her to find it out.

5. Have they talked about boundaries and rules of their relationship, what is accepted and what isn´t? If not, then they definetely should do so! That could be a good moment come clean.

6. Many people would be okay with it. Many people can forgive that kind of mistake.

7. I would most likely forgive.

8. Its not the end of the world and he is not the worst person ever. Its not that black and white.

9. Did this clear things up?

10. The jumbled up mess of word vomit was convincing.