Depends on the game.If the role fits more a male, in my view, then I will choose a male charachter.If that role fits more a female charachter, then female it is.Wether I am a man or a female in real life, it doesnt matter, and honestly I think it shouldnt also matter for others.Its a game.Its a fantasy.Its not "realistic" by definition.
My (locked) thread about how difficulty should be a decision for the developers, not the gamers.
https://gamrconnect.vgchartz.com/thread.php?id=241866&page=1