SecondWar said:
I'm going to challenge you here. I think StarOcean is twisting your words, but I can understand why they are so offended by your comment. "Being happy for" someone and "being happy" that something happened are not the same thing. That said, I feel you are showing a huge lack of understanding of what drives someone to even comtenplate, let alone attempt, suicide. In the most basic terms, its is a lasr resort when their outlook on their life is that things can't get worse but will never get better and an act of sheer desperation to end their suffering. To say you are happy they succeeded is warped to say the least. |
Well i dont want to derail the thread further so if you want more explanation im willing to do it through PM.
If the person is suffering and feels like they dont want to live im for them getting as much help as they want i said this in another thread before but if nothing helps and they decide to kill themselves im glad that the person doesnt have ot suffer any more thats what i meant by saying im happy for them. Ive also said that it feels bad for those affected because i had an uncle that shot himself and it felt bad knowing id never get to talk to him again but i was glad he didnt have to suffer and did what he felt he had to do.