I played accordion for what felt like an eternity. It was fun at first but I quickly lost interest but everyone around me still pushed me to do it and my mom payed a lot of money for me to be taught by a semi popular teacher. I have no idea why everyone around me still pushed me to do it even though it was obvious that I didn't want to do it anymore. It was a terrible waste of time, money and nerves.
If you demand respect or gratitude for your volunteer work, you're doing volunteering wrong.