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Hey everyone,

I just though I'd give my opinion on homosexuality here and feel free to let me know if I fit the definition of 'homophobic'.

I'm not religious in any way, in fact I'm agnostic. So I wouldn't dare use some doctrine to try to judge homosexual acts morally. Homosexuality, in most cases, is a consensual relationship that in no way violates the non-aggression principle. In a relationship between two or more people, this is key. Where it is not consensual, it is rape and therefore illegal. 

In fact the more I rationalise it, the more I fail to see a problem with homosexual relationships. So why then do I feel sick when I think of two men performing homosexual acts? I have rationalised it, jusified it morally and accepted it, but seriously the thought of two guys going at it really does make me nauseous. 

Being presented with gay imagary basically gives me the same feeling as being presented with images of beastiality. 

Two women? It's strange but not vomit inducing. But not great either. 

I'm also not into anal sex at all so that's probably got something to do with it (it makes my ass sore - kidding).

I don't think this is something that I've been taught to find disgusting, I think it's built into me (born this way).

None of this is a problem however, because gay people don't have sex in front of me, and I would usually have to go looking for gay imagery if I wanted it.

I would call a lot of gay people I've met friends. Some came out later than others but nothing changed when they did. Incredibly nice people, all of them so far.

So am I homophobic? 



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You probably just need to try it.



No because you don't hate gay people. I don't like to see gay or straight couples French kissing either in public either. Do that shit at home. That doesn't make me a straightophobic (or something like that). Homophobia is hating gays for what they are. You don't care about that, you just don't want to have to see it. So no you are not homophobic. It's not the natural biological state for males to mate thus you are disgusted by it. Thete is nothing wrong with that. Besides most guys I know don't like to say gays kissing or going at it, but still treat gay people the same as regular people.



Please excuse my (probally) poor grammar

No, but I don't think that disgust you feel has born with you at all.



From Wikipedia:
Homophobia encompasses a range of negative attitudes and feelings toward homosexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender (LGBT). It has been defined as contempt, prejudice, aversion, hatred or antipathy, may be based on irrational fear, and is often related to religious beliefs.

So no, if you don't think that homosexuality is a sin and if you can accept homosexuals as friends, you're not homophobic.



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I used to (when I was younger) not feel comfortable if I saw two men holding hands, or kissing, out on the streets.
Ive grown up since, and now I just think its sweet that 2 people, that are basically a rarity found each other.

Love is right, thats it.
Doesnt matter if its between same sex couples or not.

Ive never been what most would call Homophobic.

Locknuts said:

Two women? It's strange but not vomit inducing. But not great either. 

..... what? its like the most commonly search after porn, by straight guys.

Most guys just think "Im not into dicks, watching 2 ladies, double the fun".

Vomit inducing? really?



Rêveur said:
You probably just need to try it.

Lol. I could try sucking a horse off while I'm at it. 



As a straight man, I really like anal. Our G-spot is located there you know. You should try it ;). Maybe you'll turn gay, isn't that awesome?!



JRPGfan said:

I used to (when I was younger) not feel comfortable if I saw two men holding hands, or kissing, out on the streets.
Ive grown up since, and now I just think its sweet that 2 people, that are basically a rarity found each other.

Love is right, thats it.
Doesnt matter if its between same sex couples or not.

Ive never been what most would call Homophobic.

Locknuts said:

Two women? It's strange but not vomit inducing. But not great either. 

..... what? its like the most commonly search after porn, by straight guys.

Most guys just think "Im not into dicks, watching 2 ladies, double the fun".

Vomit inducing? really?

Well I did write 'not'. But if you are referring to homosexual acts then yes, it makes me feel physically ill. I have never actually looked long enough to see if I would actually vomit though.



HintHRO said:
As a straight man, I really like anal. Our G-spot is located there you know. You should try it ;). Maybe you'll turn gay, isn't that awesome?!

I've had rim jobs. That's awesome but never put anything up there. Not my thing.