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Ka-pi96 said:
So... how'd it go?

Oh, was he actually talking to us just before he was going to attempt to have sex?



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Johnw1104 said:
COKTOE said:

Slang from a bygone era. It basically just means person.

My mother's been trying to bring it back for about half a century now... perhaps she has finally succeeded.

I just had a coversation the other day about how wierd it is that 'cat' completely vanished, but 'chick' somehow stayed around. I mean it's been largely replaced by bitches, wich in turn is being replaced by hoes (....nice 'progresssion' there btw), but at least it's still universally known what is referred to when someone talks about a 'hot chick'.

monocle_layton said:
curl-6 said:

I don't find hardcore porn that interesting, personally. I prefer a little more subltety; softcore literary porn gets my motor running far more effectively than just watching two people fuck. 

It's kind of hard to get off to anything when there's no connection whatsoever. After you're done, what the heck do you do? It just feels strange honestly. Simply being with someone you have a close connection with is better than watching two strangers banging or flashing themselves.

My problem with most porn is that A) It's not realistic at all and B) no one looks like they're actually having fun. Sex, for me has always been playful and contained at lot of smiles, giggles and laughther during the foreplay stages of it. It also has always been intimate, wich a lot of porn really isn't. It's very clinical, in, out, in, out of whatever orifice they're going for at the time and no furter contact. No petting and strocking, no affection or appreciation for each other, no kissing, no actual pleasure or creativity. There's also the fact that most women in porn gat treated like slabs of meat to be exploited by men with giant cocks. Not something I'm into at all.

 

As for OP I'd say, don't stress, explore a little before you go all in. There's so many things you can do that can be a turn on that have nothing do with penetration. Kisses (in all sorts of places), playing with her boobs, handjobs, oral, dirty talk (wich does not neccissarily has to be 'porn talk' just tell each other what you want and like) or even just rubbing. Just find out what you and her like and play around a little bit. Get comfortable with each other in that way and then move on to the next step.

I can sympathisze with your fear of getting her pregnant, but condoms work, don't sweat it. Also the pill can be very uncompfortable for some women, while it's totally fine or even helpful for others. I know people who have become antsy and depressed due to being on a pill that didn't mesh with their unique body chemistry, others that hve gained 15kg out of nowhere and lost it as soon as they stopped taking it. Whatever you do, the pill will mess with your chemical balance since it basically simulates an ongoing cicle of pregnancy and miscarriage every month. Give it a try, but don't rely on it too much in case she feels uncomfortable with it.



Ljink96 said:
Hmmm...are you a Republican?

Why would I be Repubican? XD



VGPolyglot said:
Ka-pi96 said:
So... how'd it go?

Oh, was he actually talking to us just before he was going to attempt to have sex?

Nah. She wants to do it soon though. Prob be done before the month is over x.x



StarOcean said:
VGPolyglot said:

Oh, was he actually talking to us just before he was going to attempt to have sex?

Nah. She wants to do it soon though. Prob be done before the month is over x.x

OK. So, I assume that you're really nervous? I hope that it'll all work out! I've never had sex either, though, so I'm not really the best person to ask for advice!



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Aeolus451 said:
Have you kissed or fooled around with a woman before? Did it turn you on enough to have sex or get an erection?

I have but and it sorta turned me on. Not enough to want sex though

Aeolus451 said:
Ljink96 said:
Hmmm...are you a Republican?

He's on the other side of the political spectrum somewhere.

Hmm I wouldnt say other side. While Im definitely not Republican I do have a lot of values the left hate. Im anti-Trump. And for a while was pissed at the Repubicans for him. But both candidates were bad. And if Hillary had won Id prob not be happy with the Dems either. But from what I hear Dems are practically right wing as well



VGPolyglot said:
StarOcean said:

Nah. She wants to do it soon though. Prob be done before the month is over x.x

OK. So, I assume that you're really nervous? I hope that it'll all work out! I've never had sex either, though, so I'm not really the best person to ask for advice!

Sorta! Not for the reasons I listed though. Nah, my mom would disown me if she ever found out I banged before marriage



StarOcean said:
VGPolyglot said:

OK. So, I assume that you're really nervous? I hope that it'll all work out! I've never had sex either, though, so I'm not really the best person to ask for advice!

Sorta! Not for the reasons I listed though. Nah, my mom would disown me if she ever found out I banged before marriage

Oh yeah, you have religious parents? Are you sure that that doesn't have something to do with it? Maybe you can't get turned on easily because you have some subconscious guilt or something that is putting up a mental blockade! Because I had an experience when I masturbated for the first time: I felt so sick that I thought I was going to through up, I got all sweaty and tingly, and I had to go to sleep afterwards as I didn't feel good.



VGPolyglot said:
StarOcean said:

Sorta! Not for the reasons I listed though. Nah, my mom would disown me if she ever found out I banged before marriage

Oh yeah, you have religious parents? Are you sure that that doesn't have something to do with it? Maybe you can't get turned on easily because you have some subconscious guilt or something that is putting up a mental blockade! Because I had an experience when I masturbated for the first time: I felt so sick that I thought I was going to through up, I got all sweaty and tingly, and I had to go to sleep afterwards as I didn't feel good.

My mom and siblings are religious. My dad is an atheist so he doesnt care XD Its possible. For the first 17-18yrs of my life I was told if I had sex before marriage I was bad and my mom said she wouldnt talk to me again until I marry



StarOcean said:
VGPolyglot said:

Oh yeah, you have religious parents? Are you sure that that doesn't have something to do with it? Maybe you can't get turned on easily because you have some subconscious guilt or something that is putting up a mental blockade! Because I had an experience when I masturbated for the first time: I felt so sick that I thought I was going to through up, I got all sweaty and tingly, and I had to go to sleep afterwards as I didn't feel good.

My mom and siblings are religious. My dad is an atheist so he doesnt care XD Its possible. For the first 17-18yrs of my life I was told if I had sex before marriage I was bad and my mom said she wouldnt talk to me again until I marry

I guess we'll just have to keep it as your little secret! You'll just have to really make sure not to get her pregnant!