i find the hypocrisy to be much, much more common amongst women. More than happy to judge men for whatever, but as soon as men dare to have standards back it's all 'sexism' 'misogyny' 'body shaming' 'unrealistic body standards' 'patriarchy' blah blah blah
You find it to be much, much more common? Do you have any proof to back it up?
only proof of experience. but there is a reason, for example, the fat acceptance movement focuses 99% on women, because women seem to feel entitled to men's attention and attraction. And you can see the reaction on social media whenever a man says something about a woman's looks, yet no one cares about women doing the same to men. This image sums it up well