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buy a knife 2 1.18%
 
buy pepper spray 40 23.67%
 
buy a gun 20 11.83%
 
buy a katana 20 11.83%
 
taekwondo and karate classes 36 21.30%
 
all of the above 51 30.18%
 
Total:169

It is a shame, but we have to be careful due to these kind of events.

I always try to mindful of surroundings, never allow self to be distracted by phone or music and keep distance. I also have taken self defense classes. The expectation isn't to beat the attacker as men naturally can overpower us, but to either escape or deter. Pepper spray or a rape whistle are good suggestions.

Sadly, even with every precaution things can go badly quickly, and others I have spoken with take these courses due to attacks similar to yours. At the very least it can be a method to work through trauma and regain confidence in yourself. Best of luck to you Onionberry.



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I agree with others who have said do NOT get a gun. You should definitely look into some basic self-defense classes and I know some places offer it for free - especially for women. Pepper spray is good, but it will affect you too depending on how close the guy is, but it will slow him down. I would not get a taser (illegal in NY anyways) or knife (again, NY has strict laws here) or anything like that as they all could be used against you and you could really hurt someone.

As a believer, I agree with what WagnerPaiva said - God's your best defense.



Wildcard36qs said:
I agree with others who have said do NOT get a gun. You should definitely look into some basic self-defense classes and I know some places offer it for free - especially for women. Pepper spray is good, but it will affect you too depending on how close the guy is, but it will slow him down. I would not get a taser (illegal in NY anyways) or knife (again, NY has strict laws here) or anything like that as they all could be used against you and you could really hurt someone.

As a believer, I agree with what WagnerPaiva said - God's your best defense.

oh come on, you were doing so well with good advice. She's already said she is religious, didnt stop the original attack did it. lets use a bit of common sense instead if there is a god, he doesnt stop nasty things happening to people, so using that as a defence is not going to help, self defence on the other hand, may help.



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Madword said:
Wildcard36qs said:
I agree with others who have said do NOT get a gun. You should definitely look into some basic self-defense classes and I know some places offer it for free - especially for women. Pepper spray is good, but it will affect you too depending on how close the guy is, but it will slow him down. I would not get a taser (illegal in NY anyways) or knife (again, NY has strict laws here) or anything like that as they all could be used against you and you could really hurt someone.

As a believer, I agree with what WagnerPaiva said - God's your best defense.

oh come on, you were doing so well with good advice. She's already said she is religious, didnt stop the original attack did it. lets use a bit of common sense instead if there is a god, he doesnt stop nasty things happening to people, so using that as a defence is not going to help, self defence on the other hand, may help.

Hey, God created the people who made these self-defense techniques. Use them. I am not suggesting you don't. Just stating what I prioritize over everything else first.



Ka-pi96 said:
Qwark said:
Buy a tazer it's very effective and causes no real trauma to a body unlike a knife. Anyway glad you are physically okay and taking some classes in a martial art can't hurt with all the crazy criminals out there. I'd you want to go full revenge and be a badass buy a Katana and take swordfighting lessons.

Isn`t that more for if you want to go to jail for carrying a katana around rather than revenge?

Depends on where you live. If you can walk around with a full or semi automatic assault rifle in some states. I guess you can also walk around with a Katana, besides you can hide a katana quite well it's very elegant. In my country carrying pepperspray is already a crime.



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onionberry said:
Ka-pi96 said:

Isn`t that more for if you want to go to jail for carrying a katana around rather than revenge?

I'll buy a customized umbrella katana

You would receive points for style from me. If you walk around with a umbrella katana as long as you don't kill anyone with and just scare criminals away. Maybe even let them wet themselves ;p. 



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Madword said:
WagnerPaiva said:

Knifes are messy sis, I have two words for you: KRAV MAGA.

If it keep the most hated country in the world safe, it shall keep you safe too.

Also, I know you guys are super modern and trendy and stuff, but consider doing a prayer before leaving home "Dear God, please keep me safe till I return, in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, Amen".

I know, I know, my hateful religious ways are hurting everyone and bla bla bla. But it is not like I am asking you to fast for 40 days or something, a little prayer would take 15 seconds of your time, and, at the worst, it will do you no harm.

Unfortunately a prayer isnt going to change anything. If it makes you feel better then great do it, but ultimately it wont change a thug trying to hurt you or steal from you. 

I also agree that knives is a bad idea. anything that you could potentiall use could in theory be used upon you, so careful consideration is very much needed. I think some form of self defence knowledge is the best bet, allowing you to get away from a bad situation, but weapons pontentially could put you in even more halms way if the person who is mugging you has some skill or strength and can turn it back onto you.

Wasnt there someone on VGC who was attacked with a knife and gave a very vivid account (I think they were from the UK in Cambridge), it was a horrible story.

I hate knives, way too messy. I have a bunch, but only to work in my yard and for fishing. I never carry them around.



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WagnerPaiva said:
Madword said:

Unfortunately a prayer isnt going to change anything. If it makes you feel better then great do it, but ultimately it wont change a thug trying to hurt you or steal from you. 

I also agree that knives is a bad idea. anything that you could potentiall use could in theory be used upon you, so careful consideration is very much needed. I think some form of self defence knowledge is the best bet, allowing you to get away from a bad situation, but weapons pontentially could put you in even more halms way if the person who is mugging you has some skill or strength and can turn it back onto you.

Wasnt there someone on VGC who was attacked with a knife and gave a very vivid account (I think they were from the UK in Cambridge), it was a horrible story.

I hate knives, way too messy. I have a bunch, but only to work in my yard and for fishing. I never carry them around.

Yeah theres something very brutal about knives (not in work use obviously) and I think you have to be very brave or lack some emotion to use one on someone. It would be so easy to have it knocked out of your hand or your arm twisted, it's grossing me out just thinking about it :| 



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Madword said:
WagnerPaiva said:

I hate knives, way too messy. I have a bunch, but only to work in my yard and for fishing. I never carry them around.

Yeah theres something very brutal about knives (not in work use obviously) and I think you have to be very brave or lack some emotion to use one on someone. It would be so easy to have it knocked out of your hand or your arm twisted, it's grossing me out just thinking about it :| 

Absolutelly.



My grammar errors are justified by the fact that I am a brazilian living in Brazil. I am also very stupid.

That's horrible, glad that you are ok.

Also some of the posts here are....interesting.



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