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FunFan said:
COKTOE said:

I obvioulsly cannot say. Just mentioning a few second hand happenings within my microcosm. Giving birth sounds pretty harsh though. It has a lot of hype behind it. Seems legit. ;)

Actually theres one thing that could happen to men that is quite akin to labour. It involves kidney stones and the penis.

I sure nailed the spelling there. ha.



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pbroy said:
FunFan said:

There's really only one method that is 100% secure, but no one likes it XD.

The one taking it in the anus?

Actually no, the anus is quite close to the vagina. External leakage can occur. (OMG the nasty things you guys are making me say, yuck!)



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Update: She came over today and we discussed things for about 4 hours.

She's booking the appointment tomorrow to go to the Abortion clinic.
But, I informed her of course if she ever wants to back out at any point she can.



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An abortion in your situation is probably for the best TBH. Ye barely know each other and ye are so young. Time will be the greatest healer after the abortion



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maverick40 said:
An abortion in your situation is probably for the best TBH. Ye barely know each other and ye are so young. Time will be the greatest healer after the abortion

Yeah that's pretty much the point I was making, with a host of other things. 

The problem for her was mainly the abortion itself, she knew and knows it's best, but time will tell to see if it's followed through with.



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I have 3 children myself and reading your post was...to be honest, it was hard. Your post is definitely written by a person who is not a parent. I don't try or want to judge you since I understand you could never understand the point of view of people who have children. You are clearly confused, both of you, and like someone else already told, you two should chill out and think this over week or two. I also want to clarify my opinions are 100% outside of religions.

This is important decision that cannot be reversed. And no, even if you or the girl deeply regretted abortion in the future, it is still the child who lost the most, not you two.

Never ever think that you could not be a good parent or that girl could not be a good mother. Never.

Never think money would be a problem. There is a solution, you two can make it work.

Never think a child would ruin your life. That is some of the most fucking selfish entitled bullshit I have ever heard.

 

Thing is, a child changes you as a person. I dare to say, if you someday become a parent and then would read your original post, you simply would not regocnize any of it. A newborn baby's first cry, the cry of life itself, has the power to completely change your understanding, the beliefs, the whole reality you are living. It happened to me, like a newspaper shredded before your eyes, my reality crumpled and I could see and understand something more, something that was always there, the deepest emotions.

Take a breather and think this over.



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Every girl should do an abortion at least once in their life. Is the right thing to do. Abortion is good for humanity.



As someone who recently became a parent, my views are somewhat skewed. I'll just say that you'd be shocked at how instinctual and rapid becoming a parent can be. As soon as you hear your baby cry, hold them for the first time and feed them there's this immediate bond that completely changes how you view the world. If you two decide to go through with it I think you'd be shocked at how you just force yourselves to make things happen. Having a baby also doesn't mean you have to abandon your career, you just need to figure out how to make it work (something that's specific to your situation).

That said, I know I'd be terrified if I was your age and this happened. I had a lot of time to prep to be a parent and was with my wife for nearly 14 years before my son was born so if I was in your position I don't know what I'd do. Just keep what I said in mind.



Azuren said:

Show me your TITS!