With PlayStation, I honestly dont think the games i would mention actually define my experience with the platform. But thats cause Sony has a way of bringing in new franchises often. so I'll just go with
GT, Jak, Uncharted, killzone, GoW and I'll throw in Final fantasy and kingdom hearts. Therr are tons more, but thede all have a certain significance to me at certain times in my life.
For Nintendo, I think of them and all i see is super Mario bros on the NES, metal gear, Zelda and Fzero.
As for Xbox, its never been my thing. But if there is anything i can think of it would be KotOR and splinter cell.