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Married. 213 20.44%
 
Engaged. 50 4.80%
 
Dating (long term) 121 11.61%
 
Dating (Short term) 40 3.84%
 
In a polygamous, polyamar... 22 2.11%
 
Single. 543 52.11%
 
Other....in comments. 53 5.09%
 
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miqdadi on 06 June 2016
John2290 said:
miqdadi said:
married

My sincere condolences. What a terrible way to be.                                  ....j/k.... Luck and good wishes to a happy marraige.

Perhaps I posted this with a vote without expression, it's not bad, I love my wife and family, she is not into gaming but I still have room for that



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curl-6 on 06 June 2016
trasharmdsister12 said:

curl-6 said:

If it helps at all, I can relate to a lot of what you are saying. I'm 27 as well, and while I have dated in the past, I started much later than my peers, (first date at 23) I've been in a total dry spell for some time now, and I too have tried multiple dating services and had absolutely zero success. Basically, you're not alone in finding dating a basically unwinnable game.

It doesn't help at all . I'd rather I be the only one in this situation and find peace in the fact that other people aren't struggling. But thanks for trying

Ah, my bad. A lot of people find it comforting to know they're not the only one experiencing a certain problem.

You say you find the physical side of things a problem; how so?



tsogud on 07 June 2016

I'm hopelessly single ㅠ.ㅠ



 

Nighthawk117 on 07 June 2016

Single here. But here's a story that should cheer up some of the other single guys.
Last girl I dated asked to borrow $2400 after a few weeks of seeing her. She said she needed
the money to pay rent and credit card bills. Said she would pay me back about a month later.

So, being stupid and having a boner for her, I loaned her the money. A few weeks later, I got a letter from
her and a check for $1400. She said she still owed me $1000 and would pay that back a few weeks later.

Never saw another penny from her, last I heard she had moved to Vegas, but then settled in Indianapolis. Some people just suck.



darkenergy on 07 June 2016

I'm single, not the right time looking for a girlfriend, if ever :-p



Proud to be a Californian.

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Jumpin on 07 June 2016
Moonlighter said:

Single. I'd rather not be in a relationship at the moment, especially when I'm primarily concerned about my success.

Out of curiosity, how does not being in a relationship help one to be successful? That sounds a little strange.

I suppose that if you decided to start a relationship with a total deadbeat that would be bad, but in my experience, most people aren't like that. If anything, I would say being in a good relationship is more beneficial to success. And if you end up in a bad one by accident, you can break it up and start a new one, assuming you live in Europe, and not a non-liberalized nation.



I describe myself as a little dose of toxic masculinity.

Netyaroze on 07 June 2016
Nighthawk117 said:

Single here. But here's a story that should cheer up some of the other single guys.
Last girl I dated asked to borrow $2400 after a few weeks of seeing her. She said she needed
the money to pay rent and credit card bills. Said she would pay me back about a month later.

So, being stupid and having a boner for her, I loaned her the money. A few weeks later, I got a letter from
her and a check for $1400. She said she still owed me $1000 and would pay that back a few weeks later.

Never saw another penny from her, last I heard she had moved to Vegas, but then settled in Indianapolis. Some people just suck.

 I am sorry for that, but seriously you are lucky you even got the 1400. Why would you even consider this ? Loaning money to people is rarely a good idea. Much less to some random chick. Simply say no if someone asks you again.



curl-6 on 07 June 2016
trasharmdsister12 said:

curl-6 said:

Ah, my bad. A lot of people find it comforting to know they're not the only one experiencing a certain problem.

You say you find the physical side of things a problem; how so?

Yeah, for multiple reasons. I'm not comfortable with physical contact. That's a big of a story with my upbringing. In addition I have huge body image issues to the point where you'd think I just absolutely hate myself. And I sort of do. But people say I shouldn't. I'm a pretty slim/average build but I tend to focus on the disproportion of my upper body to my lower body.

Yeah, I can definitely relate. I have to really trust somebody to be comfortable with physical contact, most people I'm not even comfortable shaking their hand. Not a fan of my appearance either. I've worked very hard to get an athletic body, but short of plastic surgery, which is a little out of my financial league, there's not a lot I can do about my unfortunate facial proportions.

Even with these handicaps though, I have been able to date in the past, so I am sure you can too. Hang in there mate.



princevenom on 07 June 2016

single



PwerlvlAmy on 07 June 2016

the other is something we do not dare to know,for if we do, death awaits us



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