naruball said: That's the thing, though. Who decides who's a real feminist? or a real gamer? or a real fan? No, seriously. Who determines that? What if "real feminism" is not about equality but about women's rights and all the people claiming to be "real feminists" are equalists who see themselves as real feminists? Is there a leader and a committee that makes a decision and tells everyone what a real feminist is supposed to be, like the church tells people how to interpret the bible? To my knowledge, there are all kinds of feminists. And if you talk to them, every single one feels like they are a real feminist. And the saddest part is, from my experience at least. they fight for women's right and not for equal treatment. They fight against rape of women, while turning a blind eye on all the cases of false accusations of men by women who simply want to hurt them. Or on women who rape men. |
The reason it's called feminism is because it was started by women, not because the movement is anti-men. I can see how some people (even women) are put off by its name and try to distance themselves from it because of the negative connotation it has. It's actually quite simple, if someone believes women should have the same rights as men and want to advocate for those rights, they're feminist. On the other hand there's hateful people who actually believe that women are inherently superior and men should be punished for their evil existence, and that is certainly NOT what feminism is about.