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BraLoD said:
LudicrousSpeed said:
Emotional little girl makes stupid mistake and then makes even dumber mistake by taking her own life.

Not sure how anyone could say bad parenting. This was good parenting. Seems the girl just had emotional issues.


I seriously hope you never be a father.

If humiliating a kid, your kid, and making a video about it and sharing it with the internet is good parenting to you, you are better without any kids dude, you clearly is not suited to have one and/or to handle one. A father has to be the rational, the adult, in this relationship, not the irresponsible irrational child.

I have 4 kids including an about to be 16 year old adopted daughter. We just bought her a slugbug last  
night for her first car as a reward for acing her exams in school and earning early college credit. Shes overcome so much!

Thanks for the generalizations and assumptions though, friend. Its ok, lots of people are wrong from time to time on the Internets. Today its just your turn. If youd like to continue this personal stuff, feel free to send me some PM's i can ignore.



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Wrong about me being a father, wrong about the type of father I'd be, wrong about some shitty notion of one size fits all parenting. Triple threat guy! Hope that helped.



LudicrousSpeed said:
Emotional little girl makes stupid mistake and then makes even dumber mistake by taking her own life.

Not sure how anyone could say bad parenting. This was good parenting. Seems the girl just had emotional issues.


No, that's horrible, horrible parenting. Punishing your child is one thing, humiliating your child in public is something entirely different. You'd have to be completely messed up in the head to even consider doing what this idiot did. His daughter was a thirteen year old kid, thirteen. Lots of children have emotional issues in that age, it's part of being a teenager, it's part of growing up, and a good parent should understand that and not do fucked up things like cutting of the children's hair and posting a video of the humiliating act for everyone to see.



Have any of you guys been to a store or a restaurant and seen a parent reprehend their child wether by spanking or yelling? That is public shaming. Embarrassing children in a attemp to discourage bad behavior has happened for hundreds of years. I guarantee you all your parents have done it to you atleast once. The only the did the father is guilty of is not realizing the emotional stress from bullying his daughter was going through and how un unintentionally added to it.



Xxain said:
Have any of you guys been to a store or a restaurant and seen a parent reprehend their child wether by spanking or yelling? That is public shaming. Embarrassing children in a attemp to discourage bad behavior has happened for hundreds of years. I guarantee you all your parents have done it to you atleast once. The only the did the father is guilty of is not realizing the emotional stress from bullying his daughter was going through and how un unintentionally added to it.


Getting a spanking in public (at thirteen!?)

 

Having a parent cut off your hair, make a video of it, and post it on the internet where it will live and haunt you, forever.

 

Exactly the same.  You're right.



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Well, his kid killed herself as a result of his action and lack of understanding of her mental state. I would consider that a failure on his part.



Horrible, absolutely horrible. I would have him killed immediately.



d21lewis said:
Xxain said:
Have any of you guys been to a store or a restaurant and seen a parent reprehend their child wether by spanking or yelling? That is public shaming. Embarrassing children in a attemp to discourage bad behavior has happened for hundreds of years. I guarantee you all your parents have done it to you atleast once. The only the did the father is guilty of is not realizing the emotional stress from bullying his daughter was going through and how un unintentionally added to it.


Getting a spanking in public (at thirteen!?)

 

Having a parent cut off your hair, make a video of it, and post it on the internet where it will live and haunt you, forever.

 

Exactly the same.  You're right.


None of my post was actually written in response to the actual event, just in response to the "public shaming" by a parent is shocking or new or unheard-of. There are tons of embarrassing moments on the internet that the victims of the moments which didnt happen: sextapes, "leave Brittany alone! as examples,but you dont kill yourself over it. This girl obviously had more wrong in her life than what her father did and that is really overlooked here. 



d21lewis said:
Well, his kid killed herself as a result of his action and lack of understanding of her mental state. I would consider that a failure on his part.


That is exactly what I just said.



BraLoD said:
LudicrousSpeed said:
Emotional little girl makes stupid mistake and then makes even dumber mistake by taking her own life.

Not sure how anyone could say bad parenting. This was good parenting. Seems the girl just had emotional issues.


I seriously hope you never be a father.

If humiliating a kid, your kid, and making a video about it and sharing it with the internet is good parenting to you, you are better without any kids dude, you clearly is not suited to have one and/or to handle one. A father has to be the rational, the adult, in this relationship, not the irresponsible irrational child.

An emotionally compromised adult is NOT a child. Normal children don't behave this way, even when they play rough.