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OfficerRaichu15 said:
I like this suggestion the most.

Ill try it tomorrow.

I hope it helps. I've seen it happen to others too, but the best thing really to do is to avoid confrontation. Good luck.



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If they go to school with bikes put a scissor in them.

Definitely tell him to talk about it with his parents. They might not be able to help much but you shouldn't keep this to yourself. For me transferring to a different class for the next grade helped. Less contact with the bullies slowly made them lose interest.

It's easy to say to ignore everything they say but that's harder than anything. It wasn't until my mid twenties that I got my self esteem back and could start tearing that wall down I had build around me. Even in my early thirties I still had that sinking feeling whenever I heard a group of teenagers laughing. It does all fade eventually.

At least I now have the satisfaction that I got very successful in work and live happily 6000 km away while most of those mouth breathers never left their home town.

School can suck, but it's just a minor phase in live. It didn't seem so at the time and I have had many thoughts about suicide as well. All I can say, things do get better, much much better later on.



put a mask on and beat the shit out of them



Make space in your locker for him to hide in... Have clean underwear ready for him just in case..



 

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The best thing to tell him is to just ignore/avoid them. They get satisfaction out of seeing people upset.

If that doesn't work, tell him to agree with every horrible thing they say and laugh. That will seriously throw them off and they don't want to make him happy, so they'll stop.

If that doesn't work for whatever reason, tell him to tell them to fuck off or he will get someone to fuck them up. If they ask if it's a threat, make sure he tells them it's a promise.



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Something else I should say is that my advice is not universal. Not everyone is able to ignore bullies successfully and that is perfectly ok. There is lots of other good advice in this thread. The most important thing for him to do is to talk about it to other people, because it is not a burden he should share alone



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tell him to eat more and lift

 

bullies are drawn to weakness so encourage him to become stronger



Got a few suggestions:

1) take it to reddit and see if anyone around there can help. Some people in the same location might be able to help in many different ways

2) geton your friend to grow strong emotionally to be able to handle the mental bullying and use it as motivation to drive him in life

3) hot chicks - get a hot chick to side with him via a campaign against bullying bullying.

4) research - see who else is being bullied. Chances are yo ur friend isn't the only one. If there are more you have strength in numbers to go to the principle, the police etc



If it gets bad enough, giving the bullies black eyes or bloody noses usually sets these kind of things right. It also deters future bullying by word of mouth. Most people, don't like to get roughed up especially in front of their friends. So bullies target people who are weaker or who won't fight 'em.

If your friend is not good at fighting, he can learn/train. This is most logical and efficent method to handling something like this.