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This seems slightly reminiscent to one of my previous threads about anxiety but at the moment things are worse. I live a relatively simplistic life studying A levels so that I can go onto University but quite frankly I'm find it very difficult to get through all of this. I study English Language, History, and Geography as well as doing EPQ (an independent project of my choice) and none of which are difficult to me but I've just lost interest in all of this and have really detracted from my studies this year. I'm just wondering if I'm suffering from depression. Most things that I have been passionate about including gaming I've begun to lose interest in. Everyday seems like a chore to me when a few years ago I used to be eager to get up and enjoy another day. I was always shy as a child but now it's manifested into awkwardness and anxiety. I also appear to work at a slower pace, assignments for college appear to take me much longer when it was relatively easy before. I should probably cut to the chase but how do I get out of this rut and reinvigorate myself? 



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I've been going through something along these lines for a while now. It may be due to the fact that you have been
repeating the same thing for several years ( Gaming on the same console, going to the same school, studying the same subjects and so ). I guess you can try buying a bee going console so that you will be more interested to get back into gaming or you can try or chalange yourself at school by entering a couple of clubs and the like.



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Growing up can be somewhat depressing. I try to resist it as much as I can.



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Get laid... And i'm pretty serious about that.. The problem in your life is balance.. There is a reason why we work/go to school from 9 till 5.. So we can find the stuff we enjoy in the other hours.. Work/school + gaming isn't enough.. Work/school + gaming + getting laid = much needed improvement



 

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Do what makes you happy, if you don't your going to regret going to work everyday. There's very few people that can actually be happy to wake up and go do what they want for their carreer. Your at a crucial point in your life, big decision are to be made and you have to think hard and figure out what you'll be happy doing your whole life. Wold you rather be rich successful but miserable, or poor or just getting by, or happy as fuck.



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You've gotten some good advice in this thread already. I know I don't know you, but I'll chime in with some thoughts.

Your post makes it sound like you're a very serious student, which is great and I commend that. It's all about balance, though. I agree about human contact being a must. Whatever form that takes: hanging with friends, playing sports, being in a band, church, boyfriend/girlfriend, etc. It can be tough spending too much time alone or just focused on studies. You might get burnt out. That may not apply to you, you may have tons of friends already and plenty of social activities, but it's worth a mention.

I will say that depression doesn't just go away by ignoring it. Sometimes talking to someone qualified (a school counselor, therapist, etc.) can be a good idea. There's no shame it in and it can help you focus on who you are and where you want to go in life. Just to get answers and bounce ideas off someone can help. They can also help you figure out what makes you happy and how to pursue those things.

Not that you have to share anything too personal, but is there any unresolved conflict or loss in your life that you haven't dealt with? Maybe a family member who is ill or recently deceased? Disapproving parents? Any internal conflict like that? Just curious if there might be something that has your mind preoccupied. Sometimes it can be a short-term circumstance that's got you down instead of a general funk or rut.

Judging by your profile, you're still very young and have an awesome future ahead of you. You'll never be as young, carefree and healthy as you are during 18 to 30, so try and make the most of those years. Trust me, life's too short to spend too much time being depressed. Sometimes I know you can't help it, but if it extends past a short season of depression, it can be pretty detrimental to your life. You deserve to be happy and enjoy life. Sounds cheesy, I know, but it's true.

Anyway, whatever's got you down, you're not alone in it. Find out who your support system is and use it to your advantage. Lean on the ones you care about and who care about you. You don't have to go through it alone.

Best of luck and I hope things improve for you.



It'll be awhile before I figure out how to do one of these. :P 

slab_of_bacon said:
Growing up can be somewhat depressing. I try to resist it as much as I can.

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It'll be awhile before I figure out how to do one of these. :P 

zelmusario said:
You've gotten some good advice in this thread already. I know I don't know you, but I'll chime in with some thoughts.

Your post makes it sound like you're a very serious student, which is great and I commend that. It's all about balance, though. I agree about human contact being a must. Whatever form that takes: hanging with friends, playing sports, being in a band, church, boyfriend/girlfriend, etc. It can be tough spending too much time alone or just focused on studies. You might get burnt out. That may not apply to you, you may have tons of friends already and plenty of social activities, but it's worth a mention.

I will say that depression doesn't just go away by ignoring it. Sometimes talking to someone qualified (a school counselor, therapist, etc.) can be a good idea. There's no shame it in and it can help you focus on who you are and where you want to go in life. Just to get answers and bounce ideas off someone can help. They can also help you figure out what makes you happy and how to pursue those things.

Not that you have to share anything too personal, but is there any unresolved conflict or loss in your life that you haven't dealt with? Maybe a family member who is ill or recently deceased? Disapproving parents? Any internal conflict like that? Just curious if there might be something that has your mind preoccupied. Sometimes it can be a short-term circumstance that's got you down instead of a general funk or rut.

Judging by your profile, you're still very young and have an awesome future ahead of you. You'll never be as young, carefree and healthy as you are during 18 to 30, so try and make the most of those years. Trust me, life's too short to spend too much time being depressed. Sometimes I know you can't help it, but if it extends past a short season of depression, it can be pretty detrimental to your life. You deserve to be happy and enjoy life. Sounds cheesy, I know, but it's true.

Anyway, whatever's got you down, you're not alone in it. Find out who your support system is and use it to your advantage. Lean on the ones you care about and who care about you. You don't have to go through it alone.

Best of luck and I hope things improve for you.


I don't think it has anything to do with that per se but maybe to do with the condition I have, dyspraxia which affects coordination i.e. I'm clumsy and a slow learner. But thank you, you're definitely right as well as everyone else is here! NiKKoM you're probably right too although I'll refrain from actually hiring anyone and wait for the right person...or get drunk at a party or clubbing and prey something happens there! 



BraLoD said:
Try something new, maybe some sport, don't need to be one of the ones you do wirh other people if you feel shy aboit itcan be running or swimming, something to shake your body, if you don't do this already of course.

Go to other places, maybe you are the kind that likes chances even if you are afraid or anxious about them when they pop up, you can fuse both by running or riding a bike so you feel more alive.

One thing a man need is a dream, if you have a dream to,chase then you will get more will to do things, of course you can't make up one, it has to be an inspiration, but maybe you can find some doing thinfs or goomg places you are not used to.

I really dunno if that'll help, but maybe changing things up can make you find something that will.

And oh, human contact is also a must if you are too lonely, make things with friends, even if you don't feel like it, a girlfriend too. You don't need to force anything but try to change things when you see an opportunity.

Hope you can get happier. Good luck.

Well I Go-Kart  but I also occassionally play Tennis and Football but really want get into Archery again and maybe even consider Kayaking or Canoeing, the place where I live is perfect for it really! 



Rainbow Yoshi said:

Well I Go-Kart  but I also occassionally play Tennis and Football but really want get into Archery again and maybe even consider Kayaking or Canoeing, the place where I live is perfect for it really! 

geez man.. how are you ever meet a girl with sports like that.. unless you become a teacher in those sports.. Anyway don't subtitute one with the other.. add to it.. meeting girls, dating is an experience that you add to your other interest..
 



 

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