So this week hopefully, i am going to go up to a girl and tell her how i feel. The thing is i dont really know what to say and i am not worried about the idea of rejetion. However i heard that she was onec in a relationship and probably doesnt want another one, but the thing is if i hold off soon it will be too late. Better put myelf out there to see what she thinks etc.

So i plan on asking her to away from her friends in order to speak privately or talking to her when she is walking alone. Now i am going to say

Scienario 1:

"Hey etc i just want to let you know that i like you and was wondering if you had any of the same feelings." (Is this too upfront?)

In this scenario she will say no ( most likely) where i will reply

"Thats ok," and say lets not it be awkard and stuff

Scenario 2:

She will say yes in which how should i reply?

Has anyone here had good solid experience in these situations? Tips from pros would be welcome :)

Well me personally I'd just walk up to them and say hi and maybe try to be a little funny. I notice more girls are willing to talk to you etc... if you make them laugh right off the bat. Just my experience though.

Also i think it being too up front depends on the girl really.

Don't be too up front, just ask her out for a coffee or something, or a drink but coffee is better. Also try to ask her when she is alone you don't want all her friends looking on. Also what age are you?

rule 1 dont mention feelings

rule 2 dont forget rule 1

rule 3 just talk nonsense no private stuff

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rule 4 dont take advice from anyone

Does she know you? Are you two friends? If so, there's absolutely nothing wrong with being completely upfront.

If she doesn't know you, allow her to. Have some conversations with her. Just my two cents.

Yeah a few questions, Is she your age? How long have you known her? How well do you know her? Is she outgoing or shy?

Also I'll back up what another poster stated, humor (if you can pull it off) rarely hurts your chances with women.

We are both 17, know each other barely. At parties she can be outgoing but sometimes shy. Mixed bag really.

So based on the above comments, take her aside and ask her if you want to go someone one afternoon in town?

If you barely know her definitely do not be up front you'll just scare her off. Probably just play it cool get to know her, plus humour is always a big plus once you are not using cheesey one liners.

Yes; ask her out on a date first and get to know each other. Don't be so upfront since that would probably turn her off.

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