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So, The other day I was at the bar with my gf and I met this dude who was in the live music band. Turns out he is really into video games so yadda yadda yadda facebook...I invite him over to play video games and watch anime.

Anyway, we were both playing 3ds, drinkin beers, watching anime and talking about chicks and stuff, and he keeps complaining about how hot it is. I live above the laundry room, so it can get pretty warm sometimes. But he was saying he was feeling dizzy, so I thought he was just going to leave but instead he takes his shirt off and he had nothing underneath!

I played it cool and was just like whatever. I was wearing a low cut tank top anyway, so maybe I started the trend...
Anyway, it's awkward for a few minutes but then we go back to watching anime and playing games and decide to order chinese. It was a lot of fun, but then he starts talking about girls again and makes several comments about threesomes, but like, with 2 guys and 1 girl.

I laughed and just played along, and then he's like man I need a cold shower...and then is like, "no for real I need a shower, do you mind"? And I'm like...ok, towels are right outside the door. 5 minutes later, he's like "scrambles, could you grab me a towel i forgot to grab one on my way in".

At this point, I'm like 'ok wtf is going on here'.

I crack open the door to push the towel in but then he swings open the door and he's fucking naked and getting water all over the floor. He is like "thanks dude" all casually and closes the door.

I'm just floored at this point, turn abruptly and awkwardly bump back around to the living room, and sit at the computer which faces the wall.
He comes in and is like, "Just got a text from the gf, gotta run", and I can hear him changing like right behind me.

He gets dressed and is like 'This was the best day off I've had in a while, it's great getting away and just playing some games and goofin off. You should come over and meet the gf sometime. Later'.

Anyway, today he texted me and asked if I was busy friday. I still haven't texted him back yet. I'm not sure if ok is casually consenting to a threesome or if this is just me interpreting this all wrong.

What do?!



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It just seemed he felt pretty comfortable at your home which I think is a good thing. He didn't really do anything that would cross the line between two dudes.
You could probably take his offer and go visit him if you like. I assume you love your GF so my guess is he won't be able to seduce you to a threesome with his gf because that's straight cheating on your gf.

You could even bring your gf. Maybe this is the start of a wonderful friendship :)



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Did he look good naked? Sorry, not helpful.
Nice avatar, is this still you? You've been working out! Damn, still not helping.

My guess is that he doesn't really want a threesome, he's interested in you and he was just testing the waters. It's a common trick found in the selfhelp book "How to Seduce A Straight Guy" which every gay guy receives upon coming out.



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Don't be so insecure.. Nothing wrong with a naked man in your house.. Didn't you play sports? Surely you have seen another guys dick before.. Just check the gf out.. Post a pic of her and we'll decide for you



 

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Just go and see where the time takes you. If it looks like a threesome was his intent, ask to clarify, and then bail (or not) at your desire.

Seems like a pretty freewheeling guy. Shouldn't mind a question or two.



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A few guys on my wrestling team in high school would wrestle naked in showers, so your situation isn't too weird to me lol.



Sounds like the guy doesn't get social cues. Hes liberated in ways we never will be.



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Seems like this person is into guys and was just checking if you're into them too.



    

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If you intend to keep hanging out then set personal boundaries with him. Well, you have a habit of playing along from what I read. So you should stop that.