1. You're the one that completely missed the point. I love how you assume that just because someone disagrees with you, they missed the point. Far from the case. I never said that they liked 20fps. I said they like certain parts of the game and by that I meant better graphics, more enemies, more items to interact with, which means that perfmormance takes a hit. Some people are fine with easy enemies, a few items in their way, basic/cartoony graphics that don't have much detail, but 60fps. Do I think they're simple or drones? No. That's what they value the most and that's fine. It'smuch easier to make a game like Mario 3d Land run at 60fps than AC:Unity which is a much more complicated game. What I was referring to was people being more interested in playing a game with realistic graphics even if it runs at 20fps at times. So, yeah you're the one who jumped to conclusions. Since you care so much about psychology, have you done any research on people's inability to self-reflect, i.e. to even entertain the possibility that they are wrong and not everyone else? If you have the mindset that 90% of the people around you are simple it's highly unlikely that you'll examine whether you are wrong.
2. Yes it is. What if you have a son or a daughter who's not very smart and people call them "idiots". Are you gonna be be like, "well, they do have a point, so I guess they are not being rude". What if someone is fat and you call them "fat". Is that not rude? Even if that is factually correct, it's still a rude thing to say.
3. Great attitude right there.