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hatmoza said:
*reads above post

In a nutshell... that's seems to be the problem every time. The trend I always notice is people putting too much focus on dating or getting a girlfriend when they should be expanding their social life.

It's like wanting money but not wanting to work a full time job.

Lol.. You should read the entire thread.. We aren't even at the dating point.. Heck man.. We have trouble getting Mr Kahn having a coffee (or waffles) with a girl..  He tries.. We push him to try.. He doesn't always listens to us but thats ok.. At this point every experience in this dance called love is good for him..



 

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NiKKoM said:
hatmoza said:
*reads above post

In a nutshell... that's seems to be the problem every time. The trend I always notice is people putting too much focus on dating or getting a girlfriend when they should be expanding their social life.

It's like wanting money but not wanting to work a full time job.

Lol.. You should read the entire thread.. We aren't even at the dating point.. Heck man.. We have trouble getting Mr Kahn having a coffee (or waffles) with a girl..  He tries.. We push him to try.. He doesn't always listens to us but thats ok.. At this point every experience in this dance called love is good for him..

Actually did get a response from that other girl, btw.

And my social life has improved vastly since i got away from the gas station job (GetGo, hatmoza would remember who they are). It's mostly school social functions, but it gets me out at least once every other week, which is quite superior to any other time in my life thus far. Last weekend i went to a chinese hotpot restaurant and sat next to a hot Thai girl, and then the next day went to a bar trivia fundraiser.

The issue is connecting one to the other. The people i hang with generally are great people, but don't share a lot of my hobbies and whatnot. Thus it's harder to make a deep connection with them, which includes the many lovely (both in looks and personality) ladies who are part of my social sphere. To put it bluntly, i need to meet girls who are, if not actual nerds, then at least knowledgeable enough about video games and animation and such that we could talk about it once in a while. I'm far from a one-note guy in terms of being able to carry on a conversation, but i shouldn't have to bury my inner nerd forever, right?

With this new girl, even if she's not interested in me, it's still worth pursuing because she could possibly connect me to her social circle, who *would* share a lot of my interests.



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NiKKoM said:
hatmoza said:
*reads above post

In a nutshell... that's seems to be the problem every time. The trend I always notice is people putting too much focus on dating or getting a girlfriend when they should be expanding their social life.

It's like wanting money but not wanting to work a full time job.

Lol.. You should read the entire thread.. We aren't even at the dating point.. Heck man.. We have trouble getting Mr Kahn having a coffee (or waffles) with a girl..  He tries.. We push him to try.. He doesn't always listens to us but thats ok.. At this point every experience in this dance called love is good for him..


Then this is Dejavu... back in 2010... I rather not say the user. He was so stubborn!



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Mr Khan said:

Actually did get a response from that other girl, btw.


Enlight us...



 

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NiKKoM said:
Mr Khan said:

Actually did get a response from that other girl, btw.


Enlight us...

Nothing to say so far. I'm conversing and finding stuff out. She will be out of the country in June, works for a local film production company doing a football movie in Wales.

Seems pretty neat. There's some sort of comics convention going on in town next weekend, i'll enquire about her plans.



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Ah she's a Creative person? How old is she? Anyway how balsy of you trying to ask her for a comic convention when you haven't met her in real life yet.. Thumbs Up! Don't be Dissappointed and try again when she says no..



 

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NiKKoM said:
Ah she's a Creative person? How old is she? Anyway how balsy of you trying to ask her for a comic convention when you haven't met her in real life yet.. Thumbs Up! Don't be Dissappointed and try again when she says no..

27, so two years older.

And it doesn't need to be the convention. It could be waffles.



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Mr Khan said:
NiKKoM said:
Ah she's a Creative person? How old is she? Anyway how balsy of you trying to ask her for a comic convention when you haven't met her in real life yet.. Thumbs Up! Don't be Dissappointed and try again when she says no..

27, so two years older.

And it doesn't need to be the convention. It could be waffles.

waffles are the single best idea. Nobody doesn't want waffles at any given time!



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trashleg said:
Mr Khan said:
NiKKoM said:
Ah she's a Creative person? How old is she? Anyway how balsy of you trying to ask her for a comic convention when you haven't met her in real life yet.. Thumbs Up! Don't be Dissappointed and try again when she says no..

27, so two years older.

And it doesn't need to be the convention. It could be waffles.

waffles are the single best idea. Nobody doesn't want waffles at any given time!

Haven't heard anything from her in the last few days, i'll get back tomorrow or Wednesday with an ask for the weekend.

I am thinking waffles, though.



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