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Troll_Whisperer on 02 December 2014

Lol. Don't be confused. Women often take a long ass time. I've been replied by women three weeks after a message... they simply reply when they feel like it.

Just be patient and be cool. You were assuming that something was going on and that having a coffee with her meant something. It didn't. You managed to get a bit closer to her and that will get you more chances to act. Now you have to work for it.



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Mr Khan on 02 December 2014
Troll_Whisperer said:
Lol. Don't be confused. Women often take a long ass time. I've been replied by women three weeks after a message... they simply reply when they feel like it.

Just be patient and be cool. You were assuming that something was going on and that having a coffee with her meant something. It didn't. You managed to get a bit closer to her and that will get you more chances to act. Now you have to work for it.

Simplest answer is often correct, i suppose. I still think it's weird, though, but i'm the kind of person who replies promptly to all messages, important or no.



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kirby007 on 03 December 2014

ok listen that is actually good news, she figured out her feelings and wants to know you more take her dancing or something



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NiKKoM on 03 December 2014

Ha!! You were ready to give up! To end the thread! Told you so that the dance just started... You will probably fall a few times but stand up and try again.. and again.. and again

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NiKKoM on 03 December 2014

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Mr Khan on 03 December 2014

Not much. Talked with her a bit more, normal stuff about Thanksgiving, gave her my phone number by way of a flirty sort of text message, which she responded positively to. Good stuff.

Wild as hell, though. This time last week i was already in process of getting "over" her. Damn things change fast.



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NiKKoM on 03 December 2014
Mr Khan said:
Not much. Talked with her a bit more, normal stuff about Thanksgiving, gave her my phone number by way of a flirty sort of text message, which she responded positively to. Good stuff.

Wild as hell, though. This time last week i was already in process of getting "over" her. Damn things change fast.


Lol.. Even i had more faith that this wasn't over yet and i don't even know her.. Like kirb said this is my favorite thread cause you actually make me rethink and relive my past with all the dumb, stupid mistakes I made and the good, the bad and the ugly i learned with women.. Our quest continues!



 

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kirby007 on 04 December 2014

details man how flirty was that message! we can unravel the mysteries!



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NiKKoM on 04 December 2014
kirby007 said:
details man how flirty was that message! we can unravel the mysteries!


no man.. he said he has send the message in a flirty way.. i don't wanna know..



 

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trashleg on 04 December 2014
NiKKoM said:
trashleg said:

this is true. My ex told me that I was the first girl he dated who didn't routinely reject him, or make him work so hard. This was confusing to me, because I thought "so I was the first girl to actually like you as much as you like me, which in your head means I like you too much, which means I'm doing it wrong by not being a bitch?"

Guys complain about how being nice gets you nowhere. Well, being a girl with mutual interest in a guy seems to get you backwards. 


YOU SCARE US.. seriously.. it's a bit scary for us when we feel when a girl likes us more then we like them... we don't wanna take advantage (down Kirb, trying to help someone) but you are way more invested into the relationship then us.. too soon.. too strong.. too close.. please go away..


What's "too soon"? If after 8 months with a guy he wants me to learn his language and think about moving to his country next summer, am I supposed to say "back the fuck up, bitch" as a way of saying "yeah okay that sounds nice"?

You guys. Tsss. NikkoM, make a separate thread with how to understand men plz. 

 

Khan, glad about the cat and the girl situation. :D ;D :D



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