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NiKKoM said:
 

yeah about that.. Just don't do that with the same class/group/hangout.. Otherwise you'll get a stamp of being that a-hole who tried to get in the pants of every girl in the class.. Once my teacher said "damn NiKKoM its like you're crossing of a list.." and you'll end up getting a letter, yes an actual letter, from one if the girls about how much of an a-hole you are and she's sick of me pulling on strings of different girls whenever I wanted to, not caring about the feelings of the others, so she wanted to end our friendship or whatever relationship we were having and she was empowered not to be one of the girls anymore who was stringed by me..

Now i was young back then so naturally I charmed my way back in.. Which was absolutly a horrible thing for me to do.. I wonder if she ok nowadays..


Well yeah. Thankfully the university campus here is pretty huge and there are over 20,000 students. Not a huge chance of two girls I've hit on to actually know each other! Either way, is good to be respectful, since you want to showcase your attitude and interest on her character as a whole. It's hard to explain, but you need to convey you are somewhat selecting her out from the others, not only desperately trying to find a way to vent your sexual needs. Maybe that is why a lot of people think that ignoring girls actually works on getting them attracted? It could mean to her you are not totally open to her before knowing her better, perhaps...



 

 

 

 

 

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NiKKoM said:
haxxiy said:

You remind me of myself a few years ago. I learned the only safe way to let go of my anxiety actually and move forward on personal relationships was being a cheapass and outright showcasing interest and flirting right off the bat with a LOT of girls. A lot of girls will appreciate the attitude if you manage not to pass as a weirdo. You can leave the friendly talk for later if she responds on a positive fashion.

yeah about that.. Just don't do that with the same class/group/hangout.. Otherwise you'll get a stamp of being that a-hole who tried to get in the pants of every girl in the class.. Once my teacher said "damn NiKKoM its like you're crossing of a list.." and you'll end up getting a letter, yes an actual letter, from one if the girls about how much of an a-hole you are and she's sick of me pulling on strings of different girls whenever I wanted to, not caring about the feelings of the others, so she wanted to end our friendship or whatever relationship we were having and she was empowered not to be one of the girls anymore who was stringed by me..

Now i was young back then so naturally I charmed my way back in.. Which was absolutly a horrible thing for me to do.. I wonder if she ok nowadays..

Yeah, or as happened to the high school creeper who tried it amongst my group of friends, which ended in one of the girls (not me) in tears because he broke her heart...

 

He got punched in the face (yeah that was me) in the school corridor. Absolute douchebag. So no. If you like this girl, just relax but don't feel that you need to chat to loads of girls to increase your odds of "getting some". I'm guessing you're not like that (I'm talking to Khan here) since this whole thing is rather taxing for you. But at the same time, don't let it drive you crazy. 



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trashleg said:

He got punched in the face (yeah that was me) in the school corridor. Absolute douchebag. 


You're a feisty one aren't you.. (note: don't mess with any of trashlegs friends)

anyway.. Is today the day? Good luck to Mr Kahn and any lurker who is learning from this thread..



 

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NiKKoM said:
trashleg said:

He got punched in the face (yeah that was me) in the school corridor. Absolute douchebag. 


You're a feisty one aren't you.. (note: don't mess with any of trashlegs friends)

anyway.. Is today the day? Good luck to Mr Kahn and any lurker who is learning from this thread..

Today's the day if she frickin' shows up. 24 minutes in, no-show so far.



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Has she shown up?



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Yes, but now there's this other girl who wants to talk to me after class about course selection :-/

Could get swept aside here, as she usually leaves straight after class.



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Mr Khan said:
Yes, but now there's this other girl who wants to talk to me after class about course selection :-/

Could get swept aside here, as she usually leaves straight after class.


I'd say you should go for "your" girl, you can talk about course selection later. IMO ofcourse.



Teeqoz said:
Mr Khan said:
Yes, but now there's this other girl who wants to talk to me after class about course selection :-/

Could get swept aside here, as she usually leaves straight after class.


I'd say you should go for "your" girl, you can talk about course selection later. IMO ofcourse.

Then i end up looking rude and fairly transparent.

Nah, just have to hope this works out. Doing a good deed can't possibly be the wrong thing in the long run, even if it's going to set me back today.

(plus I *did* overdress today, not for that, but because i have two presentations to give. She is decidedly underdressed today).

But let's see. It could work out.



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Mr Khan said:
Teeqoz said:
Mr Khan said:
Yes, but now there's this other girl who wants to talk to me after class about course selection :-/

Could get swept aside here, as she usually leaves straight after class.


I'd say you should go for "your" girl, you can talk about course selection later. IMO ofcourse.

Then i end up looking rude and fairly transparent.

Nah, just have to hope this works out. Doing a good deed can't possibly be the wrong thing in the long run, even if it's going to set me back today.

(plus I *did* overdress today, not for that, but because i have two presentations to give. She is decidedly underdressed today).

But let's see. It could work out.


As long as you're sure you'll get another chance then sure, it won't really do any harm.



OMG this thread is going straight to december at this rate



 

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