Well, it did work out that way anyway, didn't it? I sat next to her today, and must wait at least until October 8th to go out.

It's probably going to be this tea place, though. It's closer and less likely to be hideously crowded at that time of day (that park i mentioned earlier).

You lucked out and you know it.. Its better you asked today.. This thread wouldn't lasted that long till mid october..  She could have said no then and it would be month later before any progress.. xD

Keep the tea place in mind but always ask her first where she wants to go, if she doesn't know mention the tea place.. Don't be freaked out if she drags a friend along, it happens, nothing to do with you, its a women thing.. And  remember at the end:  "lets do this again soon" its not hard, it shows confidence

Step 1) Buy a box.
Step 2) Cut a hole in that box.


I can't remember the rest of the steps, but I hear it works...

She came by during work again, dropping off another form for my boss. Less conversational this time, but she was in the middle of a class (three hour classes, again, so they give us breaks midway). No mention was made of the lunch plans

And now I am prey to a million insecurities.

Edit: This doesn, however, mean that i've isolated one more of her classes, so know 3/4ths of her schedule.

If i had to guess, the 4th class is on Monday when i'm not around. Not that it really matters.

lol... I have the feeling we'll get arrested for aiding a stalker...

Anyway.. actually i have nothing to say about the million of insecurities thing.. it happens.. some can get past it easily others not so..
How was her body language? Did she even said hi to you? did she smile when she saw you? Did she acknowledge your existence?

She had to acknowledge me: it's my job to take stuff to my boss. She talked a little, but seemed to be in a rush. She was cordial and smiled, though.

Given that her body language matches what it was last time (pre-ask. She just had to get back to class this time), I would suspect that she is a little awkward around me, possibly indicative of mutual attraction? I doubt she would have said yes if i made her uncomfortable, unless she felt that to refuse yesterday would have been too impolite.

Yes, i know. Too much thinking. Smash Bros weekend (plus family wedding), so i'm not going to be consumed by this.

Mutual Attraction? Who knows.. thats were these small drinking things come in handy.. not every girl reacts the same.. still its a good sign she didn't say no even if she was just being polite.. So enjoy your wedding and Smash Bros.. start worrying next Wednesday when she "forgot" she said yes.. Which only means you have to try harder. Most women like that you need to try a few times..

So... how should I approach her about this tomorrow?

Surprisingly not feeling that anxious, but i'm still iffy on what precisely should be done. Just approach her after class and ask if she's still up for tea/coffee/lunch?

You: "Are you still up for that coffee"

Me: "Remember that coffee you promised me?"

See The difference? I made it about her..
Now to be fair.. Its extremly likely she forgot.. Like i actually almost did with this thread.. And she gonna raincheck again.. Hench the 'promised' part making them feel a bit guilty and forcing her to make a move and making good at a promise..

( pause just for trashleg who just had an eyeopener)

Now if she falls for that right away and does say "yes lets go".. Go with the flow.. Don't go over 9000.. Take a few smints, Pay for the drinks (pay till 5 bucks, if she has an entire lunch it would be wierd to pay her share.. 5 buck is safe.. That like pocket change money) and if you enjoyed the time with her: "lets do this again, soon, next week, tomorrow"

Definitely goes against what my instinct would be.

Which means it's probably the right thing to do...