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Changing in life is always hard, try to change small stuff.. Do you ride your car a lot? Try using a bike for the smaller distances.. I always feel pretty good (also to get some of the fat away and getting in shape) after a nice bike ride.. Or maybe change your diet.. I used to have meat at least 5 times a week but I cut that back to 3... I'm not 21 anymore where I can eat a lot and don't have to worry about my body.. I sometimes take the stairs instead of the elevator.. Sweated like a pig at the start.. now I can comfortably climb 5 stears. Change some small things that make you feel better..



 

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Are you happy living like that though? Do you want to stay alone for the rest of your life? Don't you wanna meet someone some day and perhaps start a family together?
If you have trouble meeting girls then find some through dating sites.



    

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What I'd do is probably go out more. Your problem of not being comfortable around people isn't going to get fixed if you're not talking to anyone. As for finding love, I'd just let that happen by itself.

Of course, I've also heard plenty of people's stories about how Jesus got them out of their problem, so that might work, too (And it sounds way easier).



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Nintentacle said:

What I'd do is probably go out more. Your problem of not being comfortable around people isn't going to get fixed if you're not talking to anyone. As for finding love, I'd just let that happen by itself.

Of course, I've also heard plenty of people's stories about how Jesus got them out of their problem, so that might work, too (And it sounds way easier).

Church btw is a great place to meet new people..



 

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if you enjoy your life the way, good for you, you shoudn't worry for what we think of it.



“On my business card, I am a corporate president. In my mind, I am a game developer. But in my heart, I am a gamer.” - Satoru Iwata

I get this too, to a certain extent. I'm about a decade younger, have been on all of 1 date in my life, zero girlfriends, no sex. Occasionally it bothers me, but that's mostly the feeling of outside standards looking in (how practically everyone i know, even guys who are as nerdy as i am, are in relationships).

My preference, ultimately, is that i'm a guy who LOVES having a fair bit of down time. I'm not lazy necessarily, as i've spent the last semester and this past summer with around 45 hrs/week combined class/internship/work (and during the term, of course, homework, so a lot of my free time wasn't really free). But i don't like tackling more than one thing at a time. In my case, grad school is that one thing. After that it will be "find a real job and get situated" (get my own place, etc), and *then* i'll start trying to spread my social wings. I would ultimately love to find someone and raise a family in the long run, but that has dick-all to do with what i'm doing with myself this year (or next. Yay grad school...)

Point of the story is, of course, you when you feel that need to justify yourself, stop and think: am i justifying myself because of external pressures, or am i justifying myself because i'm truly unhappy but am looking for excuses to not change?

Edited addendum: working weekends definitely doesn't help. Fortunately I scored a job over the next two semesters that will be weekdays ONLY and work around my class schedule, so maybe i could get a jump on dating this coming year. At least i'll have a chance to socialize with my classmates instead of "can't do that this Saturday, have to be at the gas station."



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Mr Khan said:

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Don't you have any Female class/study mates? Or did your mindset make you blind for them?  I think is mathematicly impossible that no women At your classes didn't think: "what about Mr Khan, i could go on a date with him"

the story about Nikkom dating 3 girls who turned out to all be in the same class is for another thread



 

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Often the idea of sharing everything, including all their secrets with someone terrifies people. But what it in fact is, is something very liberating. If you can't be yourself with someone, you can't be yourself with yourself.

Even getting your heart broken is a valuable life experience.