I've had this preference for Asian women for sometime, perhaps it has driven me insane but I want to marry an Asian woman. Settling down in the far-reaches of the Orient (perhaps in Japan) would be ideal with starting afresh in life. Maybe I've grown to think that where I live has just become quotidian and I need to travel to places I'd only have dreamt of seeing. But still, I'm set in my ways of marrying an Asian woman.

Should I detract from this fantasy and get on with my life? 

Ah, so this explains the random "are you a virgin" thread bump.

Not much that can be said, however, especially from a guy who hasn't been on a date in almost four years. The prime thing at any stage of your life is to have your priorities in order, and in your case, you would want to pursue education and/or employment opportunities that could take you to Japan.

Have a Bachelor's degree? You can try getting an ESL-teaching job. Just be careful, there are about 3 respectable outfits in Japan and a whole galaxy of shitty ones. Korea is easier to get into and usually more on the up-and-up. China is yet easier, though, of course, its China.

In China, white males are luxury items. Thinks of yourself as a brandname handbag, if you decided to go there.

live the dream brother.

ive been saying that i want to marry an asian woman for years. i ended up marrying a mexican. i have
been studying japanese for years and we watch japanese dramas together and are going to move to japan so i guess that its close enough

asian woman just don't do it for me. To each there own bro.

If you do mail order you don't need to move.



Kidding; don't do mail order. On a more serious note, I don't see why you shouldn't try. But if you move I think it would be really beneficial to be fluent in the native language. I expect that would make things easier.

Go for it and be happy, Rainbow!

You see I'd love to learn the language but I feel that I'm past that critical period of learning a new language really. If I did it would open up many job opportunities. It's far-fetched and obscure but helping establish motorsport more in Japan and developing a bigger pool of talent there would be interesting. The country has a prominant history of developing the equipment but now it's time to scout for more drivers.

I wouldn't say that, you can always learn a new language. It will be difficult but you seem pretty motivated, I'm not sure if I have tried before but there are tons of learning methods out there. I just found this website called Duolingo which is awesome for learning another lagnuage however it does not have Japanese... But the website is young so I expect them to add Japanese in due time. I live in Japan but I have not tried hard to learn it - just a bunch of miscellaneous words. I started trying to learn it before I got here but I've been pre-occupied with other things.