I don't think there is any issue with appreciating someones beauty. The most disrespectful thing to me is when someone checks someone out, gets caught, and does not admit there admiration for that persons looks.

It is so sad when you see someone crushing on someone else for years, but they will never fess up. Everyone knows, but the guy or girl is to insecure to make a move. To me, that is creepy, disrespectful, and self degrading.

and then when the guy does confess... usually with an overblow "I've always loved you" type confession he's confused why it goes badly and think he's "friendzoned".   When the girl is just creeped out that a person who she thought was her friend was secretly mind banging her for years.

If a woman dresses to look sexy, she wants to be appreciated and looked at, but it doesn't mean they want you to harass them or touch them. Look but not touch, that's what I go by. If they constantly get too much attention, then they will dress down. Woman hold the power to control a man's behavior towards them. It's up to men to show respect by how much a woman is willing to put out there.

I love beauty in woman. Admiration is my limit

If there hott,then I'm going to look every single time. It has nothing to do with respect. I'm pretty sure women check out men all the time,there just not so open about it. Besides,it's not like I'm going to stalk them if they have a boyfriend/husband. LMAO!!!!!!!!!!

If the guy doesn't want to get friendzoned, he has to create some sexual tension. What do you do if you sense that a girl you are not attracted to is into you? You work to eliminate any sexual polarity. You treat her like you would a friend. 

Yes; women dress nice for positive attention. When she sees a guy looking at her, she might think 'he thinks I'm cute' when in reality he could be having sexual fantasies about her. 

The difference is that women can appreciate physical attractiveness without having the slightest thought of having sex with that person. Most men cannot do that. 

Maybe generalising a bit too much with this here. I'm female, I am attracted to all kinds of people. People in general either dress to feel comfortable, to please themselves and others in social situations, and/or to make an impression/to get noticed. 

If I'm caught looking at another girl or even a guy in that way, I almost always have some kind of 'sexual thought' of them. That's just me. But again, there are many women like this. There are also many guys who hate the idea of sex with a stranger, someone they aren't close too - this is usually what people think most women are like. I'd say from the experiences I've had personally, and hearing thoughts of other girls, they talk about sex and giggle about the same things guys would in the same situations. They just sometimes go about it differently.

Then there are assholes who make advances judging by the way someone is dressed, lets not get into that though.

Either way, TL;DR: People are people. There's no use putting them into two categories of 'men vs. women'. :)

Course I do. After letting her sleep with me its only fitting she cooks me a full english whilst im resting in bed :D


The trick is to not get caught looking. Just quick glances, nothing worse then watching a feller looking at a girl and he is dribbling