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d21lewis on 28 December 2013
Jumpin said:

When I was in University, a friend of mine had his relationship fall apart when his girlfriend blew a male stripper at girls night out thing.

So yeah, your relationship could potentially be damaged if something like that happens. Although it depends on the seriousness of the relationship. Maybe you are alright with that sort of thing?


How'd he find out!?!



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Jumpin on 28 December 2013
d21lewis said:
Jumpin said:

When I was in University, a friend of mine had his relationship fall apart when his girlfriend blew a male stripper at girls night out thing.

So yeah, your relationship could potentially be damaged if something like that happens. Although it depends on the seriousness of the relationship. Maybe you are alright with that sort of thing?


How'd he find out!?!

I don't even know. Probably one of her friends said it, or she admitted it.



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Navane on 28 December 2013
Kasz216 said:
d21lewis said:
Stop being insecure. She could see a hotter guy than you in Wal-Mart. You have her and unless you're coming up short in certain areas, she ain't going nowhere. Insecurity definitely isn't sexy. And since both of you are grown, you have to trust her anyway. You can't stop her from doing whatever she wants to do whenever she wants to do it. You're in a relationship so you gotta trust her.

That is all.


Not to mention she probablly looks at porn when your not around.

I honestly don't care if she looks at porn. I look at porn all the time but it never effects how I see her in a negative way. If anything it makes me appreciate her more.



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Ajax on 28 December 2013

Its wise to always cheat on your girlfriend as an insurence policy in case she cheats on you, or has been doing this for a time already. Women cheat as often as men. They can hide it better.



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Kasz216 on 28 December 2013
Navane said:
Kasz216 said:
d21lewis said:
Stop being insecure. She could see a hotter guy than you in Wal-Mart. You have her and unless you're coming up short in certain areas, she ain't going nowhere. Insecurity definitely isn't sexy. And since both of you are grown, you have to trust her anyway. You can't stop her from doing whatever she wants to do whenever she wants to do it. You're in a relationship so you gotta trust her.

That is all.


Not to mention she probablly looks at porn when your not around.

I honestly don't care if she looks at porn. I look at porn all the time but it never effects how I see her in a negative way. If anything it makes me appreciate her more.

Why would you look at porn unless you weren't satisfied with her in some way?

(Not that i believe that... but I don't really see the arguement on why its' any different.)



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deskpro2k3 on 28 December 2013

Trust is seriously important in a relationship. Its like a double edge sword. If she finds out you don't trust her she might think you're being paranoid or to controlling.

Sounds to me like you don't trust your GF.



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Navane on 28 December 2013
KylieDog said:
Navane said:

But then my counter argument is that we have seriously great sex (at least for her anyway). Like, I've made her orgasm over 30 times over an eight hour peirod.

Either you don't know what a female orgasm is or your girlfriend is so unsatisfied she is seriously overcompensating in her fakes.

It's kinda hard to fake squirting all over the bed
. Like she will leak, but when she orgasms she squirts a lot.



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DonFerrari on 28 December 2013

If you both love each other you must respect her wish to see a strip club as much as she should be aware that you don't fell confortable with it... and if it isn't important to her to see it, but make you fell bad she shouldn't do it...

The best would be to talk about all you fell about it... and if you decide to let her go to one strip club, go the two of you together to both a female and a male strip club, so both can get their curiosity satisfied and respect the partner.



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Recon1O1 on 28 December 2013

Well you've come to the right place. ;p



RedInker on 28 December 2013

Strip clubs are just like window shopping. It's fine as long as you look but don't touch. Everyone checks out someone they think is attractive, admittedly though, you don't always get to stuff money in her thong.