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d21lewis said:
gergroy said:
d21lewis said:

We're all pretty much born on the same level playing field aside from birth defects, etc.  Why is a guy that starts off thin, becomes incredibly obese, and then loses a lot of weight (and is still kinda overweight) considered somewhat of a hero and a role model and the guy that showed discipline their entire life and is in great shape kinda ignored?


And yes, this is about the PS4 and Xbox One.

Just kidding.  Discuss.


Because losing weight is a lot harder than maintaining your weight...


Then he should have maintained his weight in the first place instead of gaining....or is gaining the easiest option of all? 

Thats not always easy. Sadly you seem to lack knowledge of the subject and are just judging everyone as if we all have the exact same genetics. I am 38. I weigh 185lbs and 6 foot tall. I can eat whatever I want and it doesnt have any impact on me. Now I know people that eat a 10th of what I do yet they gain a lot of weight from it because genetics is against them. I dont have to work to maintain my weight but millions do. A lot of people applaud those that lose weight because, for them, it is not an easy task. Its about over coming the odds when the odds are against you.

 

Before you continue to judge others out of lack of knowledge, take few hours to research it then maybe you will understand it better.



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Seece said:
d21lewis said:
Turkish said:
*showed discipline*

What the fuck are you talking about. As if people who are obese lack discipline, they're not getting fat becoz they want to. Some people eat a lot and dont get fat, its how their body works. My bro eats a lot of junk food, doesnt work out and is still a skinny dude.

I have lost around 20kg in the past 2.5 months, went through hell to make that happen, that is showing discipline and being resolute despite being hungry all the time and withstanding temptation of eating food. I got overweight this year through personal problems and depression. You are incredibly arrogant if you think there is not a story attached to overweight people. Its easy to say that fat people should just quit eating and go to gym, but from your POV you will never understand how hard the transition is. Still 10kg to go, I really feel like a hero that should be applauded.

 

I'm sorry, Turkish.  I always assumed you looked like Jason Statham from the movie "Snatch".  

It was more of a tongue in cheek thread made in the spur of the moment.  I'm sure you're not going to let the words of some internet random discourage you.  Keep up the hard work, man.  In all honesty, I understand overcoming circumstances that you may or may not have control over.  I just approach situations with a bit of levity.  Some times, it's in poor taste.

Why .. how on earth could you think a Turkish person looks like Jason Statham! lol

Losing weight does not make you a hero ...


I dunno... Darken him up a little bit and he looks a lot like a lot of middle eastern people i know.

Even has the same balding pattern/haircut choice as most middle eastern people who lose their hair.



People will praise anyone that gets rid of a chronic vice whether it be tobacco, sex, over eating, gambling, or anything that harms them. It is considered bettering yourself. They will not praise them if it involves harming others. That is the real difference.

This must be a thread coming out of the fat that Georgia and the South are really fat.



d21lewis said:
Gilgamesh said:

But the biggest loser is my favorite show!


I saw some weight loss show. I don't think it was Biggest Loser.  It was similar but it just had a regular guy.  Do you think these people are being exploited a little?

If by exploited you mean they can win 250K for losing weight not mention they get the top trainers in the world, all free equipment and food and they're basically saving there lives since some of them are at the brink of heart attacks and other diseases.

Some shows are a little worst and it may seem like they're being exploited but hey whatever they can do to lose weight thats fine by me, obviously they don't want to live disabled there whole life.



chocoloco said:

People will praise anyone that gets rid of a chronic vice whether it be tobacco, sex, over eating, gambling, or anything that harms them. It is considered bettering yourself. They will not praise them if it involves harming others. That is the real difference.

This must be a thread coming out of the fat that Georgia and the South are really fat.

I'd say half the people down here are really fat (Born in Chicago, myself) with no intentions of ever improving themselves but no.  I saw a story on CNN yesterday about a guy that lost a lot of weight.  Now, he can play basketball with his family, etc.  Good for him but not something I'd consider newsworthy.  It was a fluff piece, I guess.Anyway, that's the origin of the thread.



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d21lewis said:
chocoloco said:

People will praise anyone that gets rid of a chronic vice whether it be tobacco, sex, over eating, gambling, or anything that harms them. It is considered bettering yourself. They will not praise them if it involves harming others. That is the real difference.

This must be a thread coming out of the fat that Georgia and the South are really fat.

I'd say half the people down here are really fat (Born in Chicago, myself) with no intentions of ever improving themselves but no.  I saw a story on CNN yesterday about a guy that lost a lot of weight.  Now, he can play basketball with his family, etc.  Good for him but not something I'd consider newsworthy.  It was a fluff piece, I guess.Anyway, that's the origin of the thread.

well, that kind of praise goes beyond normal. I was assuming the small comments by the people that know them and notice when they lose weight.



People like drama.



99.9% get fat beacuse they are lazy and eat too much and that's the truth.
there's no chance in hell that in the last 20 years that all of them suffer from some kind of disease or bad genes.





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anonymunchy said:
Metallicube said:

I wouldn't say people here praise them.. Maybe just a "nice work!" or pat on the back. 

Better to get fat and lose the weight than simply get fat and stay fat.. Also it's much much easier to gain the weight than to lose it, speaking as someone who has lost nearly 30 pounds in the past few years. Probably took me a year to gain that weight and mainly was a result of me sitting around and eating all the foods I liked, whereas to lose it (and keep it off) I had to implement a pretty hardcore 4-5 day a week workout regimen, cut way back on my junk foods and drinking, eat more boring vegatables, and that took me roughly twice the time.


Out of curiosity, what sort of eating habbits did you have and change to?

I always find it a bit sad when people mention boring food when trying to lose weight. A lot of people just don't know all the great things you can eat that also make you feel better. I don't drink alcohol or soda, no junk food or processed food and I really try to limit products with added flavours and colourings, yet not a single boring meal. The mind just needs to be open to new experiences.

I'd also like to point out that keeping it together your entire life is by no means any less of an accomplishment than getting it back together.


I mainly cut the really absurd habits I used to have, such as eating nearly an entire large bag of Lays potato chips in one sitting (they're just so damn addictive!) and eating most of a frozen pizza at 2 in the morning, coupled with adding more veggies and all natural foods to my diet. But beyond that, I didn't change my eating habits that drastically.



It takes an effort to come back from a bad situation. That would be why. Its inspirational for other people in the same situation to revert it.