Stayed a virgin till 20. Never regretted it. I just waited for the good one.
I've been with her for 1 year and a half now, and knew her for 2 years.
Before that my best score was 3 months xD
Stayed a virgin till 20. Never regretted it. I just waited for the good one.
I've been with her for 1 year and a half now, and knew her for 2 years.
Before that my best score was 3 months xD
ps3-sales! said:
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You don't understand. I'm very far from talking to a girl.
I'm working towards asking someone in the street for directions.
Cause No Girl Has The Privilege To Be With Someone So Sexy!!!
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Slade6alpha said: I want to write something serious, but it's too personal and sad; and not many others are taking this thread serious yet. I am a virgin though (not proud of it). |
Private message me your story friend! We virgins must stick together and I personally feel better sharing stuff like this with people who won't laugh at it.
Soleron said: Age 22. Zero friends. Cannot cope in social situations. No opportunity to practice to get up to an acceptable standard for human contact. |
Man, it is actually much easier than you think, you don´t even have to look good. The only secret is NOT to get needy.
Just talk to a potencial sexual partner about getting intimate, simple as that, talk like it is a natural thing, but you gotta be friendlly with her first, not friends, but friendlly.
NEVER give gifts, NEVER fall in love before sex. I like to use this:
"Hey Janet, you know, I gotta ask you something, but you gotta promise you will not get ofended".
"Sure Wagner, I will not get ofended".
"I mean it, I respect you a lot, I will only ask that because you are an adult and I think are mature enough to say no and not get angry or something like that"
"Sure man, I hear you."
"Well, I would like to go to bed with you, you are a great friend, but I feel this desiree for you, I think it would be dishonest not to tell you that I want to go to bed with you, just once at least."
Then she will answer.
Whatever she answer, CHANGE THE SUBJECT
"No way man, it will never happen!"
"That is ok, hey, did you hear tha Richie Sambora left Bon Jovi, I really liked him, do you think they can be good even without him?"
If she say YES, change the subject too, she will understand you are not desesperate.
Only do this if you can comunicate that you are ok hearing NO.
the-pi-guy said:
Why is that? Anxiety or something? |
I would also like to know. It's okay though. Everybody has a different level of social comfortableness (if that's a word). It's sometime that will come with practice if you just put yourself into the situation. Next time you have the opportunity to talk with a girl, just think to yourself, "What have I got to lose". Better to ask and be rejected than to not ask at all.
17 years old and still a virgin, could had lost it many times before but I never did because it never felt like the right moment, plus it felt like I was being pressured into doing it. And now I'm just too busy to borrow with girls since I'm putting more and more of my time into learning graphic design and drawing and that I'm trying to get into a good college without paying too much.
the-pi-guy said:
Why is that? Anxiety or something? |
Yes, extremely so.
But also just inability to hold a social conversation. How do I practice that, seriously.
ps3-sales! said:
Private message me your story friend! We virgins must stick together and I personally feel better sharing stuff like this with people who won't laugh at it. |
I got over it and posted.
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ps3-sales! said:
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Well, for one I have to write the remainder of the week off due to how I feel after doing something like that. Yes even with someone I won't see again etc.
Also, how would I get such an opportunity? I live in the middle of nowhere in a village of 70 year olds. And I'm unemployed.