www.youtube.com/watch?v=lQlIhraqL7o

I don't have sex in non serious/committed relationships or when i'm not in love with the person. At 18 their are no such things.

technically, men can't be virgins.
So we're good here guys! :)

2014 edition

Mr Khan said: Laziness would have to be number one, lack of knowing eligible girls as a second. I still demand proof that single girls even exist, I swear I don't know any, purely independent of my desire to do anything to them. I could probably meet these elusive singles if I weren't content to spend my off-time at home. That's part of the reason that i'm eager to move down to where my grad school is going to be, even though i could commute if i wanted. I need to get out of this house and interacting with more people my own age, then the law of large numbers is bound to catch up eventually

Well, i was right about this (written December 14th of last year, before i had even found the apartment i lived in January-July, then i've lived somewhere else still since August)

Not that i've gotten very far, but my social life is strongest it's been since college, certainly (possibly stronger, since i actually go to parties now). Have met a girl, been on one thing that was possibly a date about a month ago (which had been my first date in 4 years at that point). Still trying to see where i stand with her (but if you're interested, then you have about 1000 posts of thread to read on the subject).

So maybe this is my year? If not it has to fall out soon enough. If not this girl, at this school, then i graduate and start actually looking, something i've never really done (not like i'm super desperate for this girl, either, honestly a take it or leave it thing, but i'd rather take it if given the choice).

No. I wish I had waited though.

I want one of those "Virginity Rocks" shirts though.

Mr Khan said: Mr Khan said: Laziness would have to be number one, lack of knowing eligible girls as a second. I still demand proof that single girls even exist, I swear I don't know any, purely independent of my desire to do anything to them. I could probably meet these elusive singles if I weren't content to spend my off-time at home. That's part of the reason that i'm eager to move down to where my grad school is going to be, even though i could commute if i wanted. I need to get out of this house and interacting with more people my own age, then the law of large numbers is bound to catch up eventually Well, i was right about this (written December 14th of last year, before i had even found the apartment i lived in January-July, then i've lived somewhere else still since August) Not that i've gotten very far, but my social life is strongest it's been since college, certainly (possibly stronger, since i actually go to parties now). Have met a girl, been on one thing that was possibly a date about a month ago (which had been my first date in 4 years at that point). Still trying to see where i stand with her (but if you're interested, then you have about 1000 posts of thread to read on the subject). So maybe this is my year? If not it has to fall out soon enough. If not this girl, at this school, then i graduate and start actually looking, something i've never really done (not like i'm super desperate for this girl, either, honestly a take it or leave it thing, but i'd rather take it if given the choice).

I believe in you. Please let us know when that moment happens. 

Also let me know if you need any advice. I've been with many girls since I created this post ;)

I'm not! I've lost my virginity at around the age of 18! I haven't had sex in over a year though.. :/

Leadified said: 18 here and I was going through phases of depression and my social life was slowly falling apart in high school. I began to rebuild my social life and become more confident in university and at least now I have some female friends.

It's almost surreal to be reading this post after one year. Am I still a virgin (although I am not an emotional wreck anymore), yeah but I don't really care anymore. I don't say that because of denial but because I've just found things in life that more worth worrying about on a daily basis, in other words having hobbies or hanging out with friends and going out. And really if there's anything I've learnt so far in life is usually things turn out better when you're not worrying.

Leadified said: Leadified said: 18 here and I was going through phases of depression and my social life was slowly falling apart in high school. I began to rebuild my social life and become more confident in university and at least now I have some female friends. It's almost surreal to be reading this post after one year. Am I still a virgin (although I am not an emotional wreck anymore), yeah but I don't really care anymore. I don't say that because of denial but because I've just found things in life that more worth worrying about on a daily basis, in other words having hobbies or hanging out with friends and going out. And really if there's anything I've learnt so far in life is usually things turn out better when you're not worrying.

Agreed about not worrying about it. People only get worried because they are pressured by peers and the media.