S.T.A.G.E. said:
Vikki said:
S.T.A.G.E. said:
Vikki said:
allblue said: Because feminine straight man in real life annoys me to no end. In my point of view a man should be brave, manly and have a presence, I'm not talking about physical features, a feminine looking man can have a very manly attitude and still be very attractive. Women (not girls) in majority, wants a man, not a girly man. |
Well, I'm very sorry that you get annoyed by feminine men and have such archaic views of gender roles.
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You're right. I need to start taking some estrogen pills. Fuck all this testosterone.
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And while you're there, get a shit load of bread and butter. We're gonna put your sandwich making ass to work!
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Ok now you've attacked my mandhood. Its back. Screw them estrogen pills!
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STFU and succumb to the wonders of estrogen and sandwich making >:D
allblue said:
Oh wow, feels like I'm being accused of sexism here. Yeah you're right it makes no difference that I have abundance of testosterone in my body and not Estrogen. I guess men risking their lives on the front line or doing all the physical labour, being courteous and protective to your girlfriend, opening the door for the ladies I mean they are all archaic as you would put it.
Women wants to put on make up, wear a very pretty dress, want to be complimented on their look, their hair or how to smell, they want pretty handbags. Men wants to drive a powerful car, they want to be complimented on their musculinity, they want to lead and have their voices heard. This is all inherent part of how we are to our specific gender. Whether you want to accept it or not, this is the norm. Men are attracted to feminity, women are attracted to musculinity.
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I don't think you're sexist. Not at all. You haven't dehumanized either sex, so I just think your views are archaic. I do not believe those things, physical labour, courtesy, fighting on the front line, etc are exclusively male activities.
Yes, generally, women want to put on make up, wear the dress, be complimented on their looks etc, and men want to be masculine and have their voices heard. What I'm saying is that, as people, we can go beyond that. A man can want to wear make up, have nice hair, smell pretty etc and we should accept that. We're living in a world where the gender norms are falling apart and that's a good thing.