I wonder where everybody in this thread lives. I personally live in Austin Texas. You can get an HIV test while you are at the bathhouse and know within the hour. I can't speak for all places in the world.
I think that many of the warnings here have made it seem that HIV is somehow worse than any other STD. It's not as if there aren't others that also greatly affect health and for which there is no known cure. That is what I contest. I think that we can teach people to exercise caution with whom they are having intercourse without generalizing any crowd of people.
For someone out there I actually don't' want to go back to before I was infected. I managed to use those resources that might not have been available to me such as counseling to become better person. While it sucks I don't regret it. I've used it as a catalyst to make a number of improvements that I might not have been motivated to make before. I love myself enough now that I don't want to take a chance at changing anything in my past.