No, but it helps. For me, the person just has to be attractive irrespective of how I feel about them. The emotions usually makes the sensation feel better for me though. That is a double edged sword, however. I might get too excited if I feel strongly about the person. On the other hand, if it's just attraction then it's just pure domination without worrying about skeeting too fast.

It also depends on the kind of girl I'm interacting with. I tend to get excited from kissing and foreplay in general, but I tend to avoid kissing promiscuous girls (for obvious reasons), so it may dampen my enthusiasm for coitus.

For me, love making =/= fucking ... they're both sex, but the latter doesn't require emotions in my view.

Exactly, there is a time and place for both....

I've always found the stronger the emotional connect the better the sex.

Without any emotional connection at all... I'd just as soon use Mrs. Palmer and her five sisters - it's a whole lot cheaper and you don't get the 'used' feeling.

Lust is an emotion. Technically, yes. If you cannot get aroused you're probably being raped or impotent. Sex without love is a fleeting feeling imho. It's better and more passionate with love.

Just admit you are too lazy to put on a condom.. :P

If there's no emotional connection and somebody women or men have sex, I think both those persons automatically go to the "be careful with them" list , because there are more tend to cheat on each other since they see sex as a normal thing, in today's world many people already are saying sex is just sex simple as that and to them is no different than like changing underwear, my opinion about this they are just Hypocrites , also this kind of persons tend to see Love as something as very common and very insignificant, but here comes the hypocrite part of them, lot of times when I see girl broke up I start seeing on my facebook, "oh I'm sorry I still love u","I miss you", "I need you", blah blah blah, didn't this kind of persons say what ever with emotions like love ?, and this I have seen it alot on my facebook page lately, Same goes to the persons that say sex is just sex they are just a bunch of hipocrites , you will never know when you are going to fall in love with someone thats something you can't control, I mean seriously you think for example a men or women who loves each other would like to have rumors that your girfriend, husband, wife is having sex with someone else and still not able to react ?, haha good luck with that.

I'm not a dirty sailor!

nope. you guys feel used? ok

haha no I dont ever feel used lol  I feel more guilty than anything is why i dont like to lol 

untill recently i would do everything between zero till juicy so i suppose not, but now i met this nice girl but haven't done shit , opposide world all around... fuck me