buy her the Wii Fitness bundle

The gaming community (As much as I hate to admit this) is full of people with unrealistic expectations of women due to playing video games of these perfect and/or unrealistic body proportions.

They are very well known to be incredibly shallow and if you truly expect to get a true to life opinion on where you should go from here, well, look elsewhere.

Sorry, but from my perspective, this is the truth.

You also lost me when you said "I'm afraid of what would happen if my friends see me with her".

If your friends are assholes enough to give you shit for the women you date, well, then fuck them, they are assholes and not worth your time.


Give up your unrealistic expectations and shallow friends and find a woman who fits your full criteria and is not only "good looking", but also not a total comatose case in bed.


I have had many "beautiful" women in my life and I can tell you that for some reason, the more perfect the figure and looks, the worse they seem to be disappointing in bed.

Looks only get you so far my friend. You want a girl who makes you feel like a champ in the bedroom. Not a girl that makes your friends give you a fucking high five.

stay...but try to gently tell her that being healthy is important to you and something you value in a partner. You know that she is conscious of her weight and would like to lose it (based on what few posts I've read so far)--so help her do that. I mean anyone who is overweight probably has thoughts of losing weight, they just lack self-efficacy and motivation---you can help build her self-efficacy and give her the motivation she needs to lose the weight. I don't know all the detail but from what I know so far, it sounds as if it would be a mistake to just leave, and probably something you may well end regretting later. At least try and help her change first before ending the relationship.

What if the table was turned...would you want your dream girlfriend to tell you that there's an aspect of yourself that she's not enamoured with (i.e., doesn't like) but is willing to help you change it for the sake of the relationship? Or would you prefer her to just end the relationship with a lame/non-existent explanation?

I agree with the people that say give a shot at helping her lose the weight.

She probably wont because woman that big are just not the type, but give her a shot. Tell her that you read something about weight and live expectancy and you want her to be around for a long time for you so the both of you, together as a couple are going to be/get fit.

She can STILL cook her ass off, it just doesnt have to be fried chicken and dontus all the time.

If that doesnt work just drop the "N" word a few times.

That should end the relationship, just be careful to say it in private or you'll never get a job after!

ahahahahhaahahahah

Anyways, just tell her the truth, the only way she will ever forgive you, if you were honest

Just say, You're not physically attracted to her

Maybe it is just my perspective, but no where else do I see stupid remarks like "Get her a WiiFit" or "Get her a liposuction voucher".

This is exactly why I am leaving this place. Too many people who view stuff so negatively, whether it be games or people. Nothing is ever "good enough".

It's depressing and sad.

This woman sounds like someone who has a great head on her shoulder and a bright future, yet people look the other way because of some extra poundage.

Oh well, enjoy the perfect woman with the incredible ass and lucious hips that works at McDonalds or no job at all who will drag you down financially because they feel their looks entitle them to special treatment. That or this "perfect" woman who will cause your friends to say "Nice catch!".

Me? I'll enjoy my so called "fatty" who makes a perfect wife and mother while she works hard and brings us in a wonderful $40/hour because society made her feel like she had to stand out "intellectually".

So yeah i'll agree with the evoluntionary thing. Thanks to evolution my woman rised above the bullshit and now leads a life far superior to those hotties she competed with.

buy her Wii Fit?

no seriously if you're not into fat people then why enter the relationship to begin with?

1. Don't date her in the first place...even if you feel like you have an "obligation" to be with her. I've been in your shoes bro.
2. Tell her you just need to focus on yourself and you don't have the emotional time to be in a long term commitment
3. Say you wanna stay good friends...but just don't call her ever...when she calls..don't pick up. When she texts, ignore it.
4. After you've been apart for around 3 months, she'll let go and find someone else.

But in my opinion, I like girls with some meat.
Of course, 300 lbs is too much, but chubby? hell yeah.