Let me begin, I've been told the reason why I don't have a girlfrien is because I don't try.

But I don't think it's true, I just don't try hard enough. however, when we girls descirbe me they'll say

"oh he's sweet" or "he's funny" then theres comments like "you're weird...but in a good way."

Whenever I do something nice like offering to buy lunch. I get the "oh that's alright, gooch but thanks"

Starting to think looks does help in a way. I wish my family members would stop asking me when will I get

a Girlfriend when in truth, it won't happen. I'm fine right now because I have my friends. this not a

thread to make you feel sorry for me, I wanted to ask. Now if you have other things to add please do.

A beautiful girl asked me to go out and I told her no. This was like two months ago, and I'm nineteen and virgin.

You know what? You're better being single. If you feel sex pressure too high, you can always go buy a hooker!

You're awesome man!

I'm always wright.

Just because you're still single doesn't mean theres something wrong with you. It's just you haven't found the right person. There's no need to rush it, I understand when you say that you're family members won't stop bugging you because mine do it to me as well =P.

Well, it's gotten to a point were I don't care if do or don't.

What I didn't tell is that this girl, despite having good curves, wasn't my cup of tea. She didn't like my hobbies, and she always wanted to do something I didn't. Hope that explains things a bit more.

But definitively being better as single.

Enjoy it while it lasts.

Taken from another post i did:

What the persons need is 1) Confidence in themselves 2) Guidance on how to be tenatious with women 3) Determination to only go after 'his type' 4) Opportunity to meet woman of his type.


Once he stops hitting on just anyone and becomes selective he will have focus, and he will come off as true relationship material. Woman pick up on that. With exposure he will increase his chance of success. With tenacity he will move past rejection. With confidence he will be lucky.


Confidence starts with grooming, hygiene, sharp dress, and a sense of worth. (usually a 9-5).

"You're weird...but in a good way." Damn, I was told that once. Welcome to the club.

I don't really "try" either, I just like to let things like that happen. They may just think you're being too nice or you're trying too hard. Don't let it discourage you man.