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Men and women (people) in general cheat for different and varying reasons so I feel like it's hard to quantify it. Men may do it for what are considered "slutty reasons" for example, versus a woman who may do it more often out of spite/to control their partner.

I'm female, but I don't look at it as which sex does more of the cheating. Even who is more capable of it. Rather I think that both partners are just as likely to try to screw their partner over when a relationship goes the wrong direction. "Cheating" kinda fits into the "how" when it comes to how someone may literally/not literally screw with someone. Cheating is the symptom to the problem in other words.

Women are more likely to try to cause drama domestically, like tamper/squander money or try to negatively influence child custody, whereas a man may 'one-up' the other or try to restore their 'man card' by their using their sex appeal as a tool to make their partner jealous. Just an example.

Men are more likely to have issues with commitment, so cheating sometimes is an easy 'out', will place doubt in their partner, therefore making it mirror their own lack of self-confidence in relationships. Women may cheat, but there's usually positive motivators, like emotional feedback from their partner/the person they cheated with... they may like having their partner fight to get them back, or will use the incident to punish their partner over past behavior. They are more likely to punish themselves with guilt if the emotional blackmail backfires, i.e it doesn't go their way, so it doesn't happen as frequently... I suspect. Some women just simply get a boost from their "power" over other men, that's where you get the type you describe... but I feel like from experience it's not nearly as common.

When you look at it the point of view of standard relationship problems, actual cheating is only half the picture. Maybe men are more likely to use it as a weapon too, but since women are more likely to hang onto a man because of emotional dependency, it's also possible a man may have learned how to cheat frequently in various relationships because they know how to exploit that weakness in their partners. That may make a man the more 'frequent' sex when it comes to cheating. However, I feel like both sexes cheat for both emotional and physical reasons, and that comes from the bullshit that happens in every relationship... which usually makes it about mutual, especially if the cheated on partner continues to see or 'condone' the behavior after the first incident.



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mostly women are faithfuler than men



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Men are always faithful, because they're naturally polygamous, so they don't cheat, actually, they're faithful to each one of their women.



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It would be a about even, apparently about 10% of all children don't genetically belong to the "Dad"

Evolution in many species favours some % of the population spreading their genes through deception, re-leaving themselves of the responsibility of care which is passed onto the unsuspecting "parent", this is usually done by the male

Females may also play the game by finding the male with the most "maleness" (strength, risk-taking, confidence) to produce the strongest children with, but find a lesser male (secure, caring, stable) to help bring up the child

Women are hot for bastards, but settle for Mr Stable, sometimes they get the best of both for the future children



BasilZero said:
SnakeDrake said:
Yes, there are a lot of chicks who made fake accounts just to get to know me.


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@OT - No, both men and women are equal when it comes to whether being more faithful or not. All I can say is the world is getting worse and worse when it comes to things such as honor, family, etc. Western influences are influencing the rest of the world (both positives and negatives) but the thing is most of the negative aspects are mostly affecting newer generations which in general gets passed over to future generations.

Everyone has the tendency to break a pact in one form or another (doesnt have to be only a relationship between a man and woman but for an example can be between two nations) as sad as it may sound but it is the truth because we're all human afterall.

I agree partially, it seems to be getting worse. Perhaps it is that information and surveillance are just so much more advance and available now that it is easier to catch someone. The thing with honor, family, etc., is that it is preached a lot, but isn't really followed as much.  Maybe some people are just more open with it now, more so than in past generations. This may have something to do with western influence.



Personally I've met more cheating women than men, from the ones that admitted it at least. Actually it's not even close, 5 to 1. Two of those women cheated on their partners with me though, so of course I'd find out...

Of course this is just a personal experience. I'd say it's about equal in general, just from my gut feeling.



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I think it is about even, men get more publicity due to more often being positions of power. However, I believe women are more sneaky about their affairs.