Here is exactly why I think society needs to grow up about sex, and attraction. If I have a buddy and I think their wife is georgus I should be able to say it, and it should be taken as a complement. How damn insecure is everybody?
Sex really needs to be taken off this pedistole. It is nothing more than another enjoyable activity between to consenting people. Its not something that should be embarassing to talk about, and there is no reason for anyone to ever be ashamed about it. The only bad sexual act is, and alway will be rape. There is no way to spin making people do something against there will.
If people were not so immature about this whole subject, it would make everything a lot simpler and a whole lot safer. If you have a friend and they are open about being attracted to children then obviously you take precautions. That doesn't mean they are evil and can't be associated with, they can still be good people, but maybe you shouldn't leave the kids with them. This sceinario is a whole lot better than how we handle things currently.
I think age play is perfectly fine. As long as you are doing it with someone of legal age in your country no one can say any different. Beating off to anything in your head is perfectly fine. Do people seriously not think about their gf/bf from when they were younger or people they had a crush on? That is something I have always wondered.
As long as you feel you are under control, and you have not done anything to harm anyone you should be able to be your natural self.
As far as having kids of your own, I don't see why not. This going to far for most, but if you have kids, and you and your wife agree to a method of raising them, I think anything is ok. There is no perfect way to raise kids. Another thing I despise about society/government is this perfect world of clones they want. It takes diversity to create different thinking. Not every kid should be raised by there natural mother and father, some kids need a parent to die at a young age, some need to get beat, some need everything handed to them. Knowing what is right for each kid takes caring and loving. No written rule will ever suite everyone. We are all unique and fighting that is a great diservices to mankind.
Stop hate, let others live the life they were given. Everyone has their problems, and no one should have to feel ashamed for the way they were born. Be proud of who you are, encourage others to be proud of themselves. Learn, research, absorb everything around you. Nothing is meaningless, a purpose is placed on everything no matter how you perceive it. Discover how to love, and share that love with everything that you encounter. Help make existence a beautiful thing.
Kevyn B Grams
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