what makes you a real man?

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crissindahouse said:
spurgeonryan said:
A man does things that he has to do no matter what.

Over comes fear
over comes pain
Over comes being lazy

Over comes and conquers, or at least give it a hell of a go!

Why is it that you want to settle for a one room apartment and a stocker job?

there are people who simply don't care how big their house or car is. as example i am one of them. i live in an own great house but i really don't care about it. if i would only have one room here were i could sit, it wouldn't change anything for me. i know i have to have somethng better to be not the asshole in the society but for me? i don't care...i only want an own garden that's important for me but i don't care about the hosue.

it's funny, sometimes it's even vice versa, on vacation as example i hate those hotels everyone is doing everything for me kissing my ass the whole day. almost everyone loves that but i hate it^^  if i'm in a poor country, i don't want to be in such a hotel, i want to have the experience of the poeple who live there. other people would say "the holiday was a disaster" i would say "best holiday ever" haha

there was a guy who had millions and he sold everything he had and gave it to poor people or so. he lives now in a small hut. i think i can identify myself very good with him.

that's how he lives now

and that's how he lived before

that's a cool story. I'm personally not really a material type person. I don't have to have the latest everything. I just recently spent $300 on a 32inch LCD T.V. I had my little 23inch standard box T.V. for years. Personally as long as I'm able to pay my bills and get bye,it's all good 2 me.

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NiKKoM said:
let me really help oldschoolfool for once:

go get a mail order bride from Russia...

that's a good one. lol

oldschoolfool said:

This has been on my mind lately. I can't figure women out. Women have told me that I'm a loser and that I need 2 get a life and so on. What the hell does that mean. So,I'm a loser because I live in a small one bedroom apartment and don't have some fancy car. Telling women,that I'm some grocery stocker is like this kiss of death. I'm supposely some loser because I don't have some rich wallstreet job,making loads of money. I mean I do okay for myself, I'm not rich,but I'm able to pay all my bills and always have spending money. I admit I'm kind of lazy and lack ambition,but so what. I'm not a man,because I don't feel the need to go out and do everything under the soon. What's wrong with being a homebody. I mean,what am I suppose to pretend to be an a-hole and act like I'm into cars and have some mechanical ability and beat my chest and grunt some warrior cry. 

following your true inner beliefs and acting after them makes you a man.

why dont you tell a woman what you just said? i mean, its not like all the women who look for a "real man" are "real women".

Here's the thing. These women are looking for somebody to have fun with, give them stability, etc. It's not just your life. It's their lives, too. They want to benefit from the relationship.  They have an image of what a good guy is.  You have to, at least, fit their mold.  You don't have to be EVERYTHING they want but you have to be something!  You have to consider this question: What do you bring to the table?

Do you have a great personality? Great looks? A large penis? Money? Are you going to take them places that they've never seen before? Can you sing? What is it about you that is going to make a girl excited to see you? What's going to make her think about you when you aren't around?

I may be missing something but reading the OP, it seems like the perfect woman for you is probably sitting in her house watching The Price is Right. Any woman with self respect is looking for somebody that is, at least, on her level. You're not going to get a girl that likes mountain biking, going to clubs, sporting events, and hanging out with friends if all you have to offer is sex and cable TV. 

You could start selling drugs. That always works.

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