This has been on my mind lately. I can't figure women out. Women have told me that I'm a loser and that I need 2 get a life and so on. What the hell does that mean. So,I'm a loser because I live in a small one bedroom apartment and don't have some fancy car. Telling women,that I'm some grocery stocker is like this kiss of death. I'm supposely some loser because I don't have some rich wallstreet job,making loads of money. I mean I do okay for myself, I'm not rich,but I'm able to pay all my bills and always have spending money. I admit I'm kind of lazy and lack ambition,but so what. I'm not a man,because I don't feel the need to go out and do everything under the soon. What's wrong with being a homebody. I mean,what am I suppose to pretend to be an a-hole and act like I'm into cars and have some mechanical ability and beat my chest and grunt some warrior cry. 

A one bedroom is a step up from a studio. Work your angle meaning work what you have going for you. As for your complaining about a lack of money, you are implying that you are pursuing: A. Women who are out of your league in terms of physical looks and/or B. Women who you know who are wanting to be the baby momma of a baller.

Recognize and recalibrate. There is a girl out there for you. Better yet, befriend a woman and get her advice on what league you are in, your approach, etc. Any woman will suffice and don't be picky, befriend your ugly cashier and take her out for some drinks. Get comfortable with her to the point you two can share silence and then you will be at the point that you can ask her anything.

^^ you make some good points. thanks for the advice. 

Most importantly, don't be too hard on yourself. You may not have the greatest job now, but your future is your own. If you look at people they don't want anything that is easily obtained. Make yourself scarce. Cancel dates. Stay home and select the time you want to spend out. People desire things that are hard to obtain. The moment a person smells desperation is the moment they start formulating an escape plan.

^^ I do the exact opposite of that,your post is making see what I'm doing wrong. Thanks for the advice,I feel better now.

I think them women were talking about your penis size?

Just ignore them.

To be a man you should have the income and ability to comfortably support a family.

To simply get women, just make yourself interesting - but not just one thing interesting like a cool hair style or shirt - but maybe some dance skills and that sort of stuff as well. Something that will make you more interesting woman. Be a good speaker; if you have nothing interesting to say to a woman then she won't be interested in talking to you; pretty simple logic. Don't talk about Star Wars and Xbox for example; talk about things you are both interested in. Don't be stupid either: if you tell her Lady Gaga and dance clubs sucks and heavy-metal, weed, and starwars rule! For example, she will probably think you're a loser =P

chloroform is your friend.. unless your unfancy car doesn't have a trunk big enough to carry a woman.. what am I saying.. just go for petite women...

You need some ambition and laziness isn't sexy.