Also, the best way to meet girls is not to have a good job, that is probably just as interesting of a conversation topic to most people as it is to say you are a Michael Jackson fan in the time before Michael Jackson's death, mostly because of all the negative media, it sounded absurd to admit that, but deep down most people liked Michael Jackson and it was interesting if a person would admit and talk about it.
Also, take an interest in things that girls like (when I say that, I mean be actually interested, lead it, don't be a tag along or it will just look like you are trying too hard... Although maybe that is one way to learn about things so you can do it better later) - Just Dance parties are a great place to meet women,it is almost impossible to be at a Just Dance party and not meet at least one girl. It is just a matter of not trying to sound like a common over-macho person (don't talk about guns, fighting, or metal music - most people who are into those are people who are compensating because they want to feel more masculine - most girls are not interested in any of that stuff). As I said above, the key is an interesting thing to talk about, if it was 10 years ago and word got out that you were a Michael Jackson fan, it is almost certain that 90% of the girls would be interested in knowing more about you. Maybe saying you are rich is also interesting, but it is not necessarily something that is needed, and it is more difficult (and much more time consuming) to be rich than it is to be interesting in other areas.
So it is not just about keeping an eye out for girls, being the bee looking for a flower; in society now (and for many decades now), to put it more correctly, the girls are the bees, and the guys are the flowers - so you just have to be interesting, not even necessarily the most interesting, just interesting enough. Also, be friendly, smile, etc...
You can find out later if you are compatible with them; and this is why I think dating many different girls and failing a lot is healthy, because then you don't settle for less than someone really special; it is easy for people who don't date/fail a lot to invest way too much feeling into someone who isn't very good to match with. If you only meet and date a few, your sample will be very small - and you will probably end up attached to someone not that special, when there are dozens and dozens of better potential mates that you didn't bother to meet.
I describe myself as a little dose of toxic masculinity.
