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I am not saying spanking has a bad effect.

However I am quite certain the lazy parenting style or free riegn style or no discipline style is what is leading to so many messed up kids rather then abusive parents.

The number of kids who get smacked is way way down from years past so its not a big issue anymore.



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it is good, only in extreme cases, and it hardly depends on the child...



don't mind my username, that was more than 10 years ago, I'm a different person now, amazing how people change ^_^

very good.

Every single beating I received as a child was definitely earned :)



Ssenkahdavic said:
very good.

Every single beating I received as a child was definitely earned :)


I earned every one of mine as well...and looking back I'm grateful for them.  kept me out of a lot of trouble.



Kwaidd said:
Ssenkahdavic said:
very good.

Every single beating I received as a child was definitely earned :)


I earned every one of mine as well...and looking back I'm grateful for them.  kept me out of a lot of trouble.

Exactly.  I might have thought my parents were overly harsh at the time, but many moons later I completely agree with every single one of them.  

It kept me out of a good bit of trouble too as well as probably kept me alive (Ran out infront of a moving car....I never did that again!!!)



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pezus said:
Dr.Grass said:

EDIT. Nevermind, I shouldn't get angry at sociologists who pretend to be smarter than they are.

Did you quote me and call me a sociologist? lol


I didn't call you a sociologist  



UltimateUnknown said:
blunty51 said:
When I got licks as a young lad, I learnt my lesson.

Let it rain, say I

Exactly, people are too lax these days. A few good ol' spanks and whatnot in my childhood actually did me quite good. When I look back at it, I can definitely say I deserved it. I would say knowing that there are some very direct consequences to my actions (not just can't play xbox for 1 day) stopped me from becoming an annoying brat a lot of kids these days are.

But then again parents don't seem to care these days, they would probably come home drunk and beat the crap out of their children for fun, thats not what disciplining is though.

Yea, it's a simple formula. If it's overdone however, til the point of abuse, then that's another story of course.



Seece said:
osamanobama said:
Marks said:

Good, parents are way too soft on their kids these days. Kids need to be actually disciplined when they do something wrong.

And parents also need to take responsibility for thier kids. No more scapegoating video games and TV for their kid's bad behaviour. 

 

Edit: Of course I just mean a solid smack to the ass, not a punch or any actual violent shit. I was spanked a couple times when I was young for doing stupid shit, didn't turn me into a serial killer or bully. 

i concur...

i was spanked and disaplined serverly as a child, i think i turned out pretty well.

my parents love me and care about me, and they did what good parents should

Really? turned out homophobic and to hate and generalize a very large group of people.

Spanking/smacking should be used rarely (IMO never) but Euphoria puts across a good example of it.

Regular spanking does not make you a good parent. Lazy, uneducated and bad? Sure.

So much irony in that post...



TORONTO (Reuters) - Spanking children can cause long-term developmental damage and may even lower a child's IQ, according to a new Canadian analysis that seeks to shift the ethical debate over corporal punishment into the medical sphere.

The study, published this week in the Canadian Medical Association Journal, reached its conclusion after examining 20 years of published research on the issue. The authors say the medical finding have been largely overlooked and overshadowed by concerns that parents should have the right to determine how their children are disciplined.

While spanking is certainly not as widespread as it was 20 years ago, many still cling to the practice and see prohibiting spanking as limiting the rights of parents.

That point of view highlights the difficulty in changing hearts and minds on the issue, despite a mountain of accumulated evidence showing the damage physical punishment can have on a child, says Joan Durant, a professor at University of Manitoba and one of the authors of the study.

"We're really past the point of calling this a controversy. That's a word that's used and I don't know why, because in the research there really is no controversy," she said in an interview.

"If we had this level of consistency in findings in any other area of health, we would be acting on it. We'd be pulling out all the stops to work on the issue."

Durant and co-author Ron Ensom, with the Children's Hospital of Eastern Ontario in Ottawa, cite research showing that physical punishment makes children more aggressive and antisocial, and can cause cognitive impairment and developmental difficulties.

Recent studies suggest it may reduce the brain's grey matter in areas relevant to intelligence testing.

"What people have realized is that physical punishment doesn't only predict aggression consistently, it also predicts internalizing kinds of difficulties, like depression and substance use," said Durant.

"There are no studies that show any long term positive outcomes from physical punishment."

While banned in 32 countries, corporal punishment of children retains at least partial social acceptance in much of the world. Debates on the issue typically revolve around the ethics of using violence to enforce discipline.

With the study, Durant hopes parents will start to look at the issue from a medical perspective.

"What we're hoping is that physicians will take that message and do more to counsel parents around this and to help them understand that physical punishment isn't getting them where they want to go," she said.

She also hopes that countries that allow the practice - including Canada - will take another look at their child protection laws.

Canada is one of more than 190 countries to have ratified the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child, a 1989 treaty that sets out protections for children.

The treaty - which has been ratified by all UN member states except for the United States, Somalia and South Sudan - includes a passage stating that countries must protect children from "all forms of physical or mental violence".

"If we had two or three studies that showed that if you took 500 mg of vitamin C a day you could reduce cancer risk, we would all be taking 500 mg of vitamin C a day," Durant said.

"Here, we have more than 80 studies, I would say more than 100, that show the same thing (about corporal punishment), and yet we keep calling it controversial."



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