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Chrizum on 13 October 2011
brendude13 said:
Chrizum said:
brendude13 said:

Of course you would want to have it when you have the chance, but it's not the only thing worth living life for, nor is it always at the back of your mind.

That's why you have the distractions I mentioned! If a healthy guy has the chance to get sex with an attractive girl at any random moment, he would do so. That is not so with any other act in life. Sex is the most important thing, and all other things you do to improve your chances to have sex or just to do something, to burn time, to escape into another reality, to distract yourself from things, etc. That's all there is to life, really. That's not shallow, it's just the way it is.

Yeah, you're right, a guy would take that opportunity, it doesn't mean everything else is a distraction from that though.

Perhaps not all distractions per sé, but ways to kill time then.



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brendude13 on 13 October 2011
Chrizum said:
brendude13 said:
Chrizum said:
brendude13 said:

Of course you would want to have it when you have the chance, but it's not the only thing worth living life for, nor is it always at the back of your mind.

That's why you have the distractions I mentioned! If a healthy guy has the chance to get sex with an attractive girl at any random moment, he would do so. That is not so with any other act in life. Sex is the most important thing, and all other things you do to improve your chances to have sex or just to do something, to burn time, to escape into another reality, to distract yourself from things, etc. That's all there is to life, really. That's not shallow, it's just the way it is.

Yeah, you're right, a guy would take that opportunity, it doesn't mean everything else is a distraction from that though.

Perhaps not all distractions per sé, but ways to kill time then.

Oh yeah, definitely.



Jay520 on 13 October 2011
Chrizum said:
brendude13 said:
Chrizum said:
brendude13 said:
Chrizum said:
Johann said:

How very condescending of you.

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I don't think everyone gets the same level of enjoyment from sex. It's just more important to some people than it is to others.

And I don't think I'm too much of an idiot, but I'm definetly not miserable.

Oh please, I'm not condescending. You should be miserable for not having sex and not having a way to forget about not having sex. Since you aren't miserable, there is something wrong with you. I'm not looking down on you. If anything, I envy you. Seriously. Although you probably have a genetic defect or you have brain damage. You might want get yourself checked at the hospital. But for now, enjoy your life.

Is this guy serious?

Talk about being shallow.

Come on, shallow as opposed to what? You're either grossly overestimating humankind or you're screwing with me.

Heh heh.

I meant that lightheartedly, but I hope you are joking. Is that all you really care about in life? I want to know if YOU'RE the one screwing with ME.

I enjoy many things. I enjoy watching movies, gaming, watching and playing football, hanging out with good company, doing drugs and having sex. But that's all irrelevant. Humans must reproduce. Mostly not consciously so, but it still is the most important thing in the world. To reproduce you need to have sex.

Sex is the meaning of life. All other things are either to A) improve your chances to have sex (ie getting a job, trying to look good, being nice), or B) to distract yourself from not having sex (ie watching movies, playing videogames, doing drugs). When you don't feel the need to have sex at adult age, there is something wrong with you as that is seriously dysfunctional behavior.



Just wanted to get in this convo...

As a highly advanced species, most humans aren't concerned with living just to survive. That may have been the case many centuries ago when species survival was top priority and reproduction was a necessity for anyone who could produce. However, that's not the case today. We're at a point in our civilization where something like reproduction isn't quite as important due to the fact that our species is in no known threat of extinction. People may want sex, but it's certainly not top priority for life.

Im not saying that it's normal for someone to NOT want sex. That's weird, I agree. I'm just saying that sex isn't necessarily the most important thing, supported by the aforementioned paragraph.

For me personally, sex is not my top priority in life. I'm a track runner. I love to run. If I was forced to pick between A.) a life with no sex, or B.) a life with no running; I would choose A,) any day. Sure I'd miss sex, but running is more important IMO. It's the only thing I really care about in this world.

NightDragon83 on 13 October 2011
TheNoobHolocaust said:

1st base - Make out

2nd base - Handjob/Finger/Fisting!

3rd base - Oral

Homerun - Da seckz

Grandslam - Anal

Double play - Double Penetration :P

Triple Play - Threesome :)

Stealing home - rape O.o

Any arguments?

LOL funny list, but a couple comments...

fisting should = golden glove award (lol)

and rape should = blowing an 8 game lead going into September and missing the playoffs entirely, cuz Boston and Atlanta both got severely buttraped this past season lol.



On 2/24/13, MB1025 said:
You know I was always wondering why no one ever used the dollar sign for $ony, but then I realized they have no money so it would be pointless.

MasterVG71782 on 13 October 2011
NightDragon83 said:
TheNoobHolocaust said:

1st base - Make out

2nd base - Handjob/Finger/Fisting!

3rd base - Oral

Homerun - Da seckz

Grandslam - Anal

Double play - Double Penetration :P

Triple Play - Threesome :)

Stealing home - rape O.o

Any arguments?

LOL funny list, but a couple comments...

fisting should = golden glove award (lol)

and rape should = blowing an 8 game lead going into September and missing the playoffs entirely, cuz Boston and Atlanta both got severely buttraped this past season lol.

Fisting = Golden Glove award? XD



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MasterVG71782 on 13 October 2011

Also, this thread has certainly broken down into something I didn't expect it to.



Jay520 on 13 October 2011
MasterVG71782 said:
Also, this thread has certainly broken down into something I didn't expect it to.


All apart of the OPs plan.

Johann on 13 October 2011
Netyaroze said:
Johann said:
Netyaroze said:
Johann said:
Chrizum said:

Oh please, I'm not condescending. You should be miserable for not having sex and not having a way to forget about not having sex. Since you aren't miserable, there is something wrong with you. I'm not looking down on you. If anything, I envy you. Seriously. Although you probably have a genetic defect or you have brain damage. You might want get yourself checked at the hospital. But for now, enjoy your life.

You're not condescending? You just told me I have brain damage because I'm not interested in having sex.

@blkfish92:

Not with another human being, no.
Can have various reasons that you dont want sex. It is clearly unusual but it can have dozends of reasons not all of them are pathologic. Trauma in the past, Hormone imbalance or just lack of them. Latent other sexual preferences. If you are in puberty this is probably just a phase. Its not really usual but it exists.

Let's analyze this, shall we:

Trauma in the past - Hmmm... I was sort of abused as a child. And it did bother me for a while... but ever since I stood on his grave as he was being burried and mumbled "I hope you burn in hell, you piece of shit.", I haven't thought much about it.
 

Hormone inbalance: I don't think there's anything wrong with my hormones. But there is a history of mental illness in my mother's side of the family, so maybe a chemical imbalance is more likely.

Latent other sexual preferences: I've thought about this before. I even tried it once. Didn't do it for me.

Pubery: I'm 23, so it seems highly unlikely I'm still going through puberty.

People have been telling me this is just a phase for the last 3 years (last time I had sex). I've won a couple bets about not lasting a year. Then a couple more about not lasting 2. My next milestone is 5. Wanna get in on the action?


 

Trauma: If you were abused as a child (sort of) it doesnt matter much if the person died and you dont think about it anymore. The damage on your personality is already done. And cant be reversed that easily. Often not at all

 

Hormone imbalance is a chemical imbalance it can cause mental illnesses which can be inherited from parents often dormant in young age. Its not necessarily sexual hormones that cause desinterest in Sex.

 

Other sexual preferences: I am not talking about homosexuality here if you know what I mean. I listed it as a possibility for desinterest in sex not to offend you or something.

 

Puberty: 23 is outside of puberty thats true. But I remember that puberty on a mental level can carry on into early twenties. Especially for males.

 

To rest: I dont want to bet with you. I believe you. But tbh the attitude you showed with this statements somehow point to number 1 of my listings.

 

I dont know you and am no psychologist or something so what I am going yo say is a possibility but could be BS ofcourse:

 

You have been traumatized in the past in some way in what way is not relevant here. This can cause: Connecting physical/emotional intimacy with a weird unpleasent feeling. Maybe very sublime you cant even tell the difference to how its supposed to feel if you were traumatized in your early childhood so you cant even tell that something is wrong. That connection your brain made is nearly indestructible if you dont try to reprogram yourself actively aka going to a good psych doc. You could think of sex later as not important and you wont understand why everyone is making such a fuss about it.Because your brain was actively shutting down your sex drive in early ages since you didnt felt the same enjoyment other people do. So maybe your brain didnt make as many connections in the areas for pleasure. You would eventually be able to see it with a CT.

 

Now you can easily sacrifice sex and because its hard for most people and easy for you. It almost looks like you try to prove to the world you dont need it.

 

Let me say this: This is no achievement if its easy for you to not have sex. Its also no personal achievement to have a strong sex drive this is just biology like beeing tall.

 

Even if everything I just said is wrong. I would go to a doctor. Even if I would be fine with it. It could eventually be a chance to improve your life. And why not take a chance to improve your life ? You have nothing to loose.

Went to a therapist for 2 years. Didn't change anything.

And the whole abuse thing is hardly relevant. I didn't even figure out what happened till years later (was too young to understand it). It's not like it scarred me. Someone threw a rock in my head when I was kid once. I remember that much more vividly. I was so pissed. I never found out who did it, too. Fucking punks.

And I don't feel like my sex drive is different than anyone else's. I still masturbate regularly. Sex just seems.... unnecessary. Involving someone else is just so awkward. And you have to worry about her enjoying it too. Much easier just do it by myself. Much faster too.

And besides, it's fun rejecting confused atractive girls who are used to guys drooling all over them.



Quem disse que a boca é tua?

Qual é, Dadinho...?

Dadinho é o caralho! Meu nome agora é Zé Pequeno!

Netyaroze on 13 October 2011

Whatever. You probably know whats best for you. Every man on this planet who doesnt want sex with women gets a plus in my book.

Rejecting women just for the heck of it is not exclusive for guys who dont want Sex btw. Granted it happens less often.



Seece on 13 October 2011
Alby_da_Wolf said:
chocoloco said:
Alby_da_Wolf said:
chocoloco said:
Wow... What started out as a boring sounding thread has turned into some weird arguments.

In American culture I would call this bad, but in other cultures a man older than you might be marrying this girl.

Hope you are wearing rubbers because we do not want a thread saying I knocked up a 13 year old girl.

Either rubber or A2M.  O-) 

The latter has some added benefits, of being quite horny for both, juicy and yummy for her, and for him and everybody else, the priceless fun of reading on mags and websites those teens letters where they ask whether they can get pregnant gulping the load!   

Yeah if the woman is down for that I dont care. She would have to be one freaky girl. We are talking about Wessle here and I am telling him we dont need mini wessles running around and posting on forums and making youtube videos.

LOL! This made my day!   

Really?

It's gonna give me nightmares

I'm gonna have one of those trippy dreams with lots of banana's ...