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Netyaroze said:
Johann said:
Chrizum said:

Oh please, I'm not condescending. You should be miserable for not having sex and not having a way to forget about not having sex. Since you aren't miserable, there is something wrong with you. I'm not looking down on you. If anything, I envy you. Seriously. Although you probably have a genetic defect or you have brain damage. You might want get yourself checked at the hospital. But for now, enjoy your life.

You're not condescending? You just told me I have brain damage because I'm not interested in having sex.

@blkfish92:

Not with another human being, no.

Can have various reasons that you dont want sex. It is clearly unusual but it can have dozends of reasons not all of them are pathologic. Trauma in the past, Hormone imbalance or just lack of them. Latent other sexual preferences. If you are in puberty this is probably just a phase. Its not really usual but it exists.

Let's analyze this, shall we:

Trauma in the past - Hmmm... I was sort of abused as a child. And it did bother me for a while... but ever since I stood on his grave as he was being burried and mumbled "I hope you burn in hell, you piece of shit.", I haven't thought much about it.

Hormone inbalance: I don't think there's anything wrong with my hormones. But there is a history of mental illness in my mother's side of the family, so maybe a chemical imbalance is more likely.

Latent other sexual preferences: I've thought about this before. I even tried it once. Didn't do it for me.

Pubery: I'm 23, so it seems highly unlikely I'm still going through puberty.

People have been telling me this is just a phase for the last 3 years (last time I had sex). I've won a couple bets about not lasting a year. Then a couple more about not lasting 2. My next milestone is 5. Wanna get in on the action?



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Johann said:
Netyaroze said:
Johann said:
Chrizum said:

Oh please, I'm not condescending. You should be miserable for not having sex and not having a way to forget about not having sex. Since you aren't miserable, there is something wrong with you. I'm not looking down on you. If anything, I envy you. Seriously. Although you probably have a genetic defect or you have brain damage. You might want get yourself checked at the hospital. But for now, enjoy your life.

You're not condescending? You just told me I have brain damage because I'm not interested in having sex.

@blkfish92:

Not with another human being, no.

Can have various reasons that you dont want sex. It is clearly unusual but it can have dozends of reasons not all of them are pathologic. Trauma in the past, Hormone imbalance or just lack of them. Latent other sexual preferences. If you are in puberty this is probably just a phase. Its not really usual but it exists.

Let's analyze this, shall we:

Trauma in the past - Hmmm... I was sort of abused as a child. And it did bother me for a while... but ever since I stood on his grave as he was being burried and mumbled "I hope you burn in hell, you piece of shit.", I haven't thought much about it.

Hormone inbalance: I don't think there's anything wrong with my hormones. But there is a history of mental illness in my mother's side of the family, so maybe a chemical imbalance is more likely.

Latent other sexual preferences: I've thought about this before. I even tried it once. Didn't do it for me.

Pubery: I'm 23, so it seems highly unlikely I'm still going through puberty.

People have been telling me this is just a phase for the last 3 years (last time I had sex). I've won a couple bets about not lasting a year. Then a couple more about not lasting 2. My next milestone is 5. Wanna get in on the action?



Trauma: If you were abused as a child (sort of) it doesnt matter much if the person died and you dont think about it anymore. The damage on your personality is already done. And cant be reversed that easily. Often not at all

Hormone imbalance is a chemical imbalance it can cause mental illnesses which can be inherited from parents often dormant in young age. Its not necessarily sexual hormones that cause desinterest in Sex.

Other sexual preferences: I am not talking about homosexuality here if you know what I mean. I listed it as a possibility for desinterest in sex not to offend you or something.

Puberty: 23 is outside of puberty thats true. But I remember that puberty on a mental level can carry on into early twenties. Especially for males.

To rest: I dont want to bet with you. I believe you. But tbh the attitude you showed with this statements somehow point to number 1 of my listings.

I dont know you and am no psychologist or something so what I am going yo say is a possibility but could be BS ofcourse:

You have been traumatized in the past in some way in what way is not relevant here. This can cause: Connecting physical/emotional intimacy with a weird unpleasent feeling. Maybe very sublime you cant even tell the difference to how its supposed to feel if you were traumatized in your early childhood so you cant even tell that something is wrong. That connection your brain made is nearly indestructible if you dont try to reprogram yourself actively aka going to a good psych doc. You could think of sex later as not important and you wont understand why everyone is making such a fuss about it.Because your brain was actively shutting down your sex drive in early ages since you didnt felt the same enjoyment other people do. So maybe your brain didnt make as many connections in the areas for pleasure. You would eventually be able to see it with a CT.

Now you can easily sacrifice sex and because its hard for most people and easy for you. It almost looks like you try to prove to the world you dont need it.

Let me say this: This is no achievement if its easy for you to not have sex. Its also no personal achievement to have a strong sex drive this is just biology like beeing tall.

Even if everything I just said is wrong. I would go to a doctor. Even if I would be fine with it. It could eventually be a chance to improve your life. And why not take a chance to improve your life ? You have nothing to loose.

Johann said:
Netyaroze said:
Johann said:
Chrizum said:

Oh please, I'm not condescending. You should be miserable for not having sex and not having a way to forget about not having sex. Since you aren't miserable, there is something wrong with you. I'm not looking down on you. If anything, I envy you. Seriously. Although you probably have a genetic defect or you have brain damage. You might want get yourself checked at the hospital. But for now, enjoy your life.

You're not condescending? You just told me I have brain damage because I'm not interested in having sex.

@blkfish92:

Not with another human being, no.

Can have various reasons that you dont want sex. It is clearly unusual but it can have dozends of reasons not all of them are pathologic. Trauma in the past, Hormone imbalance or just lack of them. Latent other sexual preferences. If you are in puberty this is probably just a phase. Its not really usual but it exists.

Let's analyze this, shall we:

Trauma in the past - Hmmm... I was sort of abused as a child. And it did bother me for a while... but ever since I stood on his grave as he was being burried and mumbled "I hope you burn in hell, you piece of shit.", I haven't thought much about it.

Hormone inbalance: I don't think there's anything wrong with my hormones. But there is a history of mental illness in my mother's side of the family, so maybe a chemical imbalance is more likely.

Latent other sexual preferences: I've thought about this before. I even tried it once. Didn't do it for me.

Pubery: I'm 23, so it seems highly unlikely I'm still going through puberty.

People have been telling me this is just a phase for the last 3 years (last time I had sex). I've won a couple bets about not lasting a year. Then a couple more about not lasting 2. My next milestone is 5. Wanna get in on the action?

You may not be miserable, but it seems your life has not always been easy. You have a sexual dysfunction. It's your choice to let yourself get treated for that or not. If you do get help, I want in on the action. I'll bet you won't last another 2 years after treatment.



Kantor said:
I'm disappointed, Wessle.

With the cousix sex fiasco, you kept us posted. You asked us for advice. You posted a full and in-depth account of what happened. And now, you post one line and disappear.

Erm, I mean, that's not acceptable and you should be ashamed of yourself.

And yes, I do realise that you're trolling all of us.


Well, with the cousin fiasco I was unsure of whether or not I would do it, and the thread was created as the situation was happening. I don't need advice in thsis situation as it already happened, I rather need reassurance that I'm not pedo. There is no in depth account as there wasn't much out of the ordinary. unless you want me to give the play by play of what happens during relations?

I have never trolled this site. All my threads have been genuine in their representations of my opinions and the situations I've been in. The only troll thread I ever made was the one about The Ayran race where I used extremily convoluted arguments against other races.

If you really want a detailed log of the situation you should encourage further contact with this girl so there will be something for me to post about.



Wow... What started out as a boring sounding thread has turned into some weird arguments.

In American culture I would call this bad, but in other cultures a man older than you might be marrying this girl.

Hope you are wearing rubbers because we do not want a thread saying I knocked up a 13 year old girl.



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chocoloco said:
Wow... What started out as a boring sounding thread has turned into some weird arguments.

In American culture I would call this bad, but in other cultures a man older than you might be marrying this girl.

Hope you are wearing rubbers because we do not want a thread saying I knocked up a 13 year old girl.

Either rubber or A2M.  O-) 

The latter has some added benefits, of being quite horny for both, juicy and yummy for her, and for him and everybody else, the priceless fun of reading on mags and websites those teens letters where they ask whether they can get pregnant gulping the load!   



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brendude13 said:
Mr Khan said:
Andrespetmonkey said:

You'd be surprised. It's common for christian girls to do anal instead of vaginal since sex before marriage isn't allowed and these girls apparantly only consider vaginal sex as breaking that rule.

Shows that these "christian girls" have no idea what they're doing. Nominally anal sex is forbidden in all cases, since it constitutes a waste of sperm

Seems sex ed is lacking where you're from as well...

In England, yes, I've never had a sex ed class in my life.

...It's not like we need them though, we learn this stuff ourselves.

Really? I'm in england and I've had plenty of sex ed classes. Even the banana class



Johann said:
Netyaroze said:
Johann said:
Chrizum said:

Oh please, I'm not condescending. You should be miserable for not having sex and not having a way to forget about not having sex. Since you aren't miserable, there is something wrong with you. I'm not looking down on you. If anything, I envy you. Seriously. Although you probably have a genetic defect or you have brain damage. You might want get yourself checked at the hospital. But for now, enjoy your life.

You're not condescending? You just told me I have brain damage because I'm not interested in having sex.

@blkfish92:

Not with another human being, no.

Can have various reasons that you dont want sex. It is clearly unusual but it can have dozends of reasons not all of them are pathologic. Trauma in the past, Hormone imbalance or just lack of them. Latent other sexual preferences. If you are in puberty this is probably just a phase. Its not really usual but it exists.

Let's analyze this, shall we:

Trauma in the past - Hmmm... I was sort of abused as a child. And it did bother me for a while... but ever since I stood on his grave as he was being burried and mumbled "I hope you burn in hell, you piece of shit.", I haven't thought much about it.

Hormone inbalance: I don't think there's anything wrong with my hormones. But there is a history of mental illness in my mother's side of the family, so maybe a chemical imbalance is more likely.

Latent other sexual preferences: I've thought about this before. I even tried it once. Didn't do it for me.

Pubery: I'm 23, so it seems highly unlikely I'm still going through puberty.

People have been telling me this is just a phase for the last 3 years (last time I had sex). I've won a couple bets about not lasting a year. Then a couple more about not lasting 2. My next milestone is 5. Wanna get in on the action?

Maybe you're just asexual, it's incredibly rare, but it happens :P



Chrizum said:
Johann said:
Netyaroze said:
Johann said:
Chrizum said:

Oh please, I'm not condescending. You should be miserable for not having sex and not having a way to forget about not having sex. Since you aren't miserable, there is something wrong with you. I'm not looking down on you. If anything, I envy you. Seriously. Although you probably have a genetic defect or you have brain damage. You might want get yourself checked at the hospital. But for now, enjoy your life.

You're not condescending? You just told me I have brain damage because I'm not interested in having sex.

@blkfish92:

Not with another human being, no.

Can have various reasons that you dont want sex. It is clearly unusual but it can have dozends of reasons not all of them are pathologic. Trauma in the past, Hormone imbalance or just lack of them. Latent other sexual preferences. If you are in puberty this is probably just a phase. Its not really usual but it exists.

Let's analyze this, shall we:

Trauma in the past - Hmmm... I was sort of abused as a child. And it did bother me for a while... but ever since I stood on his grave as he was being burried and mumbled "I hope you burn in hell, you piece of shit.", I haven't thought much about it.

Hormone inbalance: I don't think there's anything wrong with my hormones. But there is a history of mental illness in my mother's side of the family, so maybe a chemical imbalance is more likely.

Latent other sexual preferences: I've thought about this before. I even tried it once. Didn't do it for me.

Pubery: I'm 23, so it seems highly unlikely I'm still going through puberty.

People have been telling me this is just a phase for the last 3 years (last time I had sex). I've won a couple bets about not lasting a year. Then a couple more about not lasting 2. My next milestone is 5. Wanna get in on the action?

You may not be miserable, but it seems your life has not always been easy. You have a sexual dysfunction. It's your choice to let yourself get treated for that or not. If you do get help, I want in on the action. I'll bet you won't last another 2 years after treatment.

Yeah, I have to agree with this guy, you may just need some therapy.



Alby_da_Wolf said:
chocoloco said:
Wow... What started out as a boring sounding thread has turned into some weird arguments.

In American culture I would call this bad, but in other cultures a man older than you might be marrying this girl.

Hope you are wearing rubbers because we do not want a thread saying I knocked up a 13 year old girl.

Either rubber or A2M.  O-) 

The latter has some added benefits, of being quite horny for both, juicy and yummy for her, and for him and everybody else, the priceless fun of reading on mags and websites those teens letters where they ask whether they can get pregnant gulping the load!   

Yeah if the woman is down for that I dont care. She would have to be one freaky girl. We are talking about Wessle here and I am telling him we dont need mini wessles running around and posting on forums and making youtube videos.