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HappySqurriel said:


For the most party, systemic discrimination has been completely eliminated in the western world ...

About the only "right" that is being "denied" to gay people in a widespread way is marriage; and more often than not that debate is not about whether homosexual couples should have the same rights as a straight couple, it is about whether the traditions surrounding marriage can be protected. Essentially, it isn't that much different between the debate over a Heterosexual pride parade, because I'm certain that the bulk of complaints over this parade is that the group is taking the name of something that is meaningful to them and warping it into something else.

It would be nice if it was true that discrimination was eliminated here. I live in Cologne/Germany, which is a city with a high percentage of gay inhabitants and is often praised for it's tolerance, which for the most part is true. It's also true that in recent years attacks - verbal and physical - started to rise again. So it's not only the laws that have to change, but also the minds of people. If a group of people try to turn back the advancements of recent years, then the desired standard isn't reached.



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sapphi_snake said:
The Fury said:
sapphi_snake said:

It would be like whites celebrating their 'whiteness'. Considering that even the person's who want to organize this are doing it to get back at gays for having so-called privileges that straight people don't, I think it's safe to say this will be the most homophobic event of the year.

It's a double standard if you word it like that. The idea of white people celebrating their identity would be laughable in our 'western' world but yet we do allow black people to celebrate their identity. 

Although I do agree that a parade of this nature just seems a bit pointless and the reasons for having it are wrong.

Because black people were enslaved and degraded for centuries in this western world. They were made to believe that bacause they're black they're worth less than whites, and that they're not even actual humans. White people do not need to be reminded of their histury and 'achievements' through a special event, when they're essentially the mainstream.

The market slavery as we know it was created by africans though. It was a very difficult operation which involved building fortresses in the african coastline and careful negotiations with the local leaders and kings, who were actually the ones who sold criminals and mainly tribal war prisioners as slaves. If you weren't any smart you could even end up as their slave. There's more than one report of white men being enslaved by african kings due to debts and so on.

And that's without mentioning that, at least in SA, most slave owners had only one or two slaves... which all went to work together and eat in the same table. Slave owners leaving all their inheritance to ex-slaves. Free slaves who actually try to get money to buy slaves as one of the first things once they are free. 

All of that in top of the hundreds of thousands of europeans who were enslaved by arabian muslims and no one ever mentions it. At the risk of sounding white, old, conservative, christian and straight, you can find a lot of interesting stuff once you go below the usual marxist, revisionist historian.

PS. and that stuff of "oh, but poor black people, they were enslaved in the past!" is fallacious and downright BS man. Or are we know going to blame the current japanese and german armies for what happened in the second war? Truman descendants for the orders on little boy and fat man? Soon enough someone in Iran will blame the mongols and demand compensation for the millions dead in persia back on the days of Gengis Khan... like I mentioned in other thread, RL shouldn't be a fucking museum to live drenched on past deals and deeds.

P.P.S - ot - the whole straight parade is just BS as it is the gay parades. Lots of them are only a bunch of hypocrites that travel to come out of the closet in the middle of everyone else and have no real courage to do anything on daily lives. Besides, stop locking the goddamned roads to do stuff. It's silly and annoying.



 

 

 

 

 

sapphi_snake said:
The Fury said:
sapphi_snake said:

It would be like whites celebrating their 'whiteness'. Considering that even the person's who want to organize this are doing it to get back at gays for having so-called privileges that straight people don't, I think it's safe to say this will be the most homophobic event of the year.

It's a double standard if you word it like that. The idea of white people celebrating their identity would be laughable in our 'western' world but yet we do allow black people to celebrate their identity. 

Although I do agree that a parade of this nature just seems a bit pointless and the reasons for having it are wrong.

Because black people were enslaved and degraded for centuries in this western world. They were made to believe that bacause they're black they're worth less than whites, and that they're not even actual humans. White people do not need to be reminded of their histury and 'achievements' through a special event, when they're essentially the mainstream.


Wow, I didnt know you were so racist



HappySqurriel said:
sapphi_snake said:
HappySqurriel said:
While I think there is a valid point that straight people don't have the same need for a pride parade that gay people had when the parades first started, for the most part gay people in many/most western countries no longer need pride parades either; and it could be argued that in many regions these parades go far beyond what is acceptable or legal and the police should do their job and enforce the law in regards to public nudity and lewd acts.

Maybe in the Netherlands, but I don't really see any other countries where these parades are inappropriate. Western countries aren't as great as they think they are (they're better than other places, but they're still below the desirable standard).


For the most party, systemic discrimination has been completely eliminated in the western world ...

About the only "right" that is being "denied" to gay people in a widespread way is marriage; and more often than not that debate is not about whether homosexual couples should have the same rights as a straight couple, it is about whether the traditions surrounding marriage can be protected. Essentially, it isn't that much different between the debate over a Heterosexual pride parade, because I'm certain that the bulk of complaints over this parade is that the group is taking the name of something that is meaningful to them and warping it into something else.

I'm pretty sure the part in italics is far from the truth. Heck, in your country there are places where you can fire a person for being gay, and people cheer.

And denying gays equality IS the main reason why they've been excluded from major areas of society (such as marriage). Marriage in it's current form is discriminative, and the ones who want to maintain 'traditions' are exactly the people who want to exclude gays from society and marginalize them.

And are you seriously with the underlined? That's just one of the most idiotic analogies I've seen... today. The problem isn't the name... it's the intent (and are you actually suggestign that gays want to be able to get married to mock straight people? That's very... right wing of yourself). A straight pride parade is no differrent than a white supremacy parade. Actually 'straight pride' is pretty much the equivalent of 'white supremacy' regarding this issue.



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The Fury said:
sapphi_snake said:
The Fury said:

It's a double standard if you word it like that. The idea of white people celebrating their identity would be laughable in our 'western' world but yet we do allow black people to celebrate their identity. 

Although I do agree that a parade of this nature just seems a bit pointless and the reasons for having it are wrong.

Because black people were enslaved and degraded for centuries in this western world. They were made to believe that bacause they're black they're worth less than whites, and that they're not even actual humans. White people do not need to be reminded of their histury and 'achievements' through a special event, when they're essentially the mainstream.

I worded that badly, I was more thinking of such things as BET and if there was a 'WET' there would, no doubt, be outrage. If we accept one version we should accept the other.

I do not consider it 'white history', I consider it history. That doesn't make me proud of it's dark sides, I'm disgusted by any attrocity performed by one group of humans on another regardless of differences. I personally do not consider things that happened well outside my lifetime with modern thinking. I will not hold a german man accountable for WWII or a southern USA farm owner for what his ancestors did 150 years ago.

Not really. White people are already accepted. They actually make up the majority of society. Same with heterosexuals. There doesn't need to be a 'WET', because there are several of them (ABC, CBS, NBC, Fox etc.).

And I wil certainly hold a german man or a southern USA farmer for their current racism (which is plentiful).



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"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."

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"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"

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Ok, so what I learned from this thread is as a straight white guy. I'm not allowed to celebrate being proud of myself without being racist/homophobic... I think I'll go cut myself now =(



haxxiy said:

1. The market slavery as we know it was created by africans though. It was a very difficult operation which involved building fortresses in the african coastline and careful negotiations with the local leaders and kings, who were actually the ones who sold criminals and mainly tribal war prisioners as slaves. If you weren't any smart you could even end up as their slave. There's more than one report of white men being enslaved by african kings due to debts and so on.

2. And that's without mentioning that, at least in SA, most slave owners had only one or two slaves... which all went to work together and eat in the same table. Slave owners leaving all their inheritance to ex-slaves. Free slaves who actually try to get money to buy slaves as one of the first things once they are free. 

3. All of that in top of the hundreds of thousands of europeans who were enslaved by arabian muslims and no one ever mentions it. 4. At the risk of sounding white, old, conservative, christian and straight, you can find a lot of interesting stuff once you go below the usual marxist, revisionist historian.

5. PS. and that stuff of "oh, but poor black people, they were enslaved in the past!" is fallacious and downright BS man. Or are we know going to blame the current japanese and german armies for what happened in the second war? Truman descendants for the orders on little boy and fat man? Soon enough someone in Iran will blame the mongols and demand compensation for the millions dead in persia back on the days of Gengis Khan... like I mentioned in other thread, RL shouldn't be a fucking museum to live drenched on past deals and deeds.

P.P.S - ot - the whole straight parade is just BS as it is the gay parades. Lots of them are only a bunch of hypocrites that travel to come out of the closet in the middle of everyone else and have no real courage to do anything on daily lives. Besides, stop locking the goddamned roads to do stuff. It's silly and annoying.

1. White people are the ones who chose to have slaves. No one forced them. They created a demand, which was met.

2. What does SA stand for?

3. What's the relevance of this? Does it in any way make whites look better? Gypsies were enslaved in Romania, and that is almost never mentioned. Heck, I didn't even hear of that 'till college. History classes over here simply do not mention that Gypsies were enslaved by Romanians for centuries.

Whites created a whole discourse, allegedly supported by science, that said that blacks were subhuman, and thus it was justified for them to be used as slaves. Being slaves was considered 'beneficial' to them. I don't think many slave owning populations stooped so low.

4. The only worthless and manipulative revisioned histories I've ever seen all come from the right. My country is an example. I'll provide another one shortly.

5. Did you know that the Japanese do not really recongize their attrocities durign WWII? Do you know that they actually have an altar in China dedicated to honoring the monsters who commited attrocities over there as martyrs? Do you know that in the past decade Japanese schools books have been revisioned, as a result of actions from righ wingers, and have seriously watered down the attrocities they commited, because the truth allegedly hurts 'national pride'? The countries that started WWII still haven't fully recognized their fault.



"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"

"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."

                                                                               (The Voice of a Generation and Seece)

"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"

                                                                               (pizzahut451)

Count me in LOL, staright pride man ya!



           

TadpoleJackson said:
Ok, so what I learned from this thread is as a straight white guy. I'm not allowed to celebrate being proud of myself without being racist/homophobic... I think I'll go cut myself now =(

I seriously hope this isn't serious. I mean, you shouldn't hurt yourself like that.

And you celebrate your heterosexuality every day, and in several special days (Valentine's Day etc.). Unlike persecuted groups, such as gays, affirming your 'pride' in your heterosexuality is just a pleonasm (heterosexuals are by definition a celebrated group).



"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"

"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."

                                                                               (The Voice of a Generation and Seece)

"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"

                                                                               (pizzahut451)

Sapphi, let me just say you are an quite amazing person, I never thought I would meet someone like you....you truly are unique