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A few weeks back I asked this girl out, she gave me many hints that she wanted to be in a relationship with me however she just wanted to be friends with me. I got over this but have started to like her again, I don't feel like asking her out a 2nd time though.

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I'd say if she said no, it'd be up to her to ask you out if she really does feel that way.



ask her out again.. bla bla... maybe she playing hard to get... bla bla..  don't have regret by not asking her out again.. bla bla.. don't turn into an emo like snesboy... move on if she refuses again... bla bla

I recapped my answer from the other thread..



 

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I actully have the same dillemia with someone i know. i didnt manage to ask her out the first time since i was interuppted when her boss walked into the office.

the problem is i like to get to someone as a sort of semi-friend, then when they feel comfortable - i will ask them out. but its not an easy situation since finding moments with this person is scarce.

i'll probabily go for it again, its just breaking the ice properly (again) then making an attempt. - my advice is go for it man - i know i'm going to!! just get to know her a bit better then go for it!



A203D said:

I actully have the same dillemia with someone i know. i didnt manage to ask her out the first time since i was interuppted when her boss walked into the office.

the problem is i like to get to someone as a sort of semi-friend, then when they feel comfortable - i will ask them out. but its not an easy situation since finding moments with this person is scarce.

i'll probabily go for it again, its just breaking the ice properly (again) then making an attempt. - my advice is go for it man - i know i'm going to!! just get to know her a bit better then go for it!


I'm in a somewhat similar situation involving a girl from one of my classes last semester.  I've been trying to track her down since class ended, but no luck.  =/

OT:  I would say ask her out again, since at this point it can't really hurt, but I know if I were in your situation I'd struggle to actually do that.   I hope whatever you decide to do works out well.



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Ask her out, maybe something good will happen. However, do not keep your hopes up. Going out with someone does not mean a relationship more than friends. That requires patience and showing her little by little that you like her, not going all over her



If she says no again just follow her home. That shows determination, girls like that



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ummmm...if she has already said she wants to be friends...  i would suggest just not asking her on a date.  BUT friends hang out together...so you could ask her to hang out somewhere.  if you are slick enough she wont even realize shes in a relationship until its too late and she cant resist you any longer.   (generally that means when you have her tied up in a forgotten bomb shelter in the middle of the woods and no one can hear her scream anyways)



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MrBubbles said:

ummmm...if she has already said she wants to be friends...  i would suggest just not asking her on a date.  BUT friends hang out together...so you could ask her to hang out somewhere.  if you are slick enough she wont even realize shes in a relationship until its too late and she cant resist you any longer.   (generally that means when you have her tied up in a forgotten bomb shelter in the middle of the woods and no one can hear her scream anyways)

I agree. Build inward and you could one day get what you want, and if not, you have a good friend in the process, which is just as valuable (and a good chick friend who could potentially set you up with other chicks :P)



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Mr Khan said:
MrBubbles said:

ummmm...if she has already said she wants to be friends...  i would suggest just not asking her on a date.  BUT friends hang out together...so you could ask her to hang out somewhere.  if you are slick enough she wont even realize shes in a relationship until its too late and she cant resist you any longer.   (generally that means when you have her tied up in a forgotten bomb shelter in the middle of the woods and no one can hear her scream anyways)

I agree. Build inward and you could one day get what you want, and if not, you have a good friend in the process, which is just as valuable (and a good chick friend who could potentially set you up with other chicks :P)

Yeah, more or less why.  I mean if after a whiel your never going to see her again or something, yeah whatever go for it, but why ruin a friendship now when we're well past an age where guys have to be expected to always make the first move.