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Can you date girl that has alot of guys friends?

no, to many guys = problems 105 46.46%
 
yes, man up bitch! 119 52.65%
 
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Gnizmo said:
loves2splooge said:

Unless a woman has poor social skills, I find it hard to believe they would have trouble finding commonalities with other women.


What you believe is irrelevant. I have seen it first hand. You can spout off about how you know it must be this or that way based on whatever anecdotal evidence you like, but the bottom line is you are wrong. People are far, far too diverse to stereotype in any way, shape, or form.


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nah i stay away girls that know alot of boys even if they havent dated any of them, its jus something that i aint so comfortable with...



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Below are some easy sums of what's being said.

1. She's a tomboy or

2. She's playing

It comes down to that much.  If she sais she has a lot of guy friends then she's either very honest or very manipulative.

What she is depends on you the guy.

When she sais I have a lot of guy friends she could also be saying that your a guy friend, thus when she goes out with the next sap she can say; "I have a lot of guy friends."

This is usually how a guy would think if they in turn have a lot of girl friends. =D

However a smart guy will give her room to screw up, after all even little white lies are impossible to sustain.



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Don't do it, you're just asking for pain and suffering. Even if she doesn't flirt or go to bed with any of those guys you will always be worried that she will one day.



I guess if they were gay guys, it would be okay........maybe.



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Who cares, you no like threesome?



Xbbjf9s said:

I was talking to this girl and friends come up in the conversation, she says that she has way more guy friends than female friends. At that moment my interest in her fell into an endless pit......was I wrong to lose interest in her?



No you weren't. usually in my experience girls with a lot of guy friends is usually getting nailed by atleast one  of those guys, if not more. One because I have been one of those guy friends and even when they had boyfriends they still wanted to get down. A girl and a guy usually find interest to talk because one or the other like the other.  Not only that, if a girl can't see that it makes there boyfriend uncomfortable and is just disrespectful to them. Then usually they are screwing someone else or don't have enough respect for other person.

say what you want but I have had a lot of girls. I dance good, Own a dj productions company and know a lot of people. I grew up with a street of players and I know what goes down when no one is paying attention. One because I nailed the cheerleader with a jock boyfriend. If it was one of my friends I have enough respect to say no and tell my boy. But if I don't know you, you better watch your bitch. Of course I'm going to say I'm only her friend then hit that sh-t later.

Guys really don't hang out with girls they don't want to screw and if they don't want to. you won't see them hanging out a lot.

In all situations  there is a reason why someone wants to be your friend.   money, drug friends, Friends with benefits,One likes the other, perks and of course a personality thing. Which if a girl is friends with a lot of guys, she enjoys the attention, getting hit on non-stop and the works. it's just a bad idea.

don't listen to these guys saying your stupid,your not. people just refuse to see why people do what they do. These are the same guys that Me and my buddies took out there girl when they where out of town. OH babe there just friends, sure I was and I loved the friendship every minute. It's happened so much and I've seen so much ho sh-t going on it's unbelieveable.

don't think your highclass girls are safe either. Those are the ones that act so stuck up until there at after hours and we all know what goes on then . I would have to say they are the worst because they lie about who they really are and what they do. Thats the girls that do the worst dirt. 

Find a girl that is honest up front, doesn't care to have all sorts of guy friends. if she wants to hang out with guys on the side while  your not around and has a problem with you feeling nervous or untrustworthy with it. she most likely cheats or is more likely to cheat. People on here want to not sound insecure, thats all bull.  Just believe me, I have had way over 100 girls, maybe 200 majority where not to be trusted, thats why I hit it and quiet it. Not that they are ho's but if you are looking for a partner be picky because you don't want to be the unlucky husband.

It's all about what you want, if you don't feel comfortable about a girl having tons of guy friends, don't date her. I wouldn't either. I have a lot of reasons why. I know a lot of girls like this and it's always the way they are. Maybe 1-100 is not on bull, the other 99 are.

My girl completely agree's with what I'm saying. She is a honest girl and is usually up my butt but then again some say she looks like cameron diaz and is a gamer. sh-t right now she is getting mad at gears of war 2. Here is a pic if you don't believe me.

 



I voted for the first one. This is my personal opinion,a trusting person is a naive person. You will more than likely be the last one to know. If your married,what's your wife doing hanging out with all these guys anyways. Watch an old show called cheater's,you'll see that there's always going to be an element of jealously. If you 0 trust the other person,then more power too you,but don't be surprised if that comes back to haunt you one day. It must be because I'm a guy,but that's just how my mind works.



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bannedagain said:
Xbbjf9s said:

I was talking to this girl and friends come up in the conversation, she says that she has way more guy friends than female friends. At that moment my interest in her fell into an endless pit......was I wrong to lose interest in her?



yes usually in my experience girls with a lot of guy friends is getting nailed by some of those guys. One because I have been one of those guy friends and even when they had boyfriends they still wanted to get down. A girl and a guy usually find interest to talk because one or the other like the other.  Not only that, if a girl can't see that it makes there boyfriend uncomfortable and is just disrespectful to them. Then usually they are screwing some else or don't have enough respect for other people.

say what you want but I have had a lot of girls. I dance good, Own my dj productions company and now a lot of people. I grew up with a street of players and I know what goes down when no one is paying attention. One because I nailed the cheerleader with a jock boyfriend. If it was of my friends I have enough respect to say no and tell my boy. But if I don't know you, you better watch your bitch. Of course I'm going to say I'm only her friend then hit that sh-t later.

Guys really don't hang out with girls they don't want to screw and if they don't want to. you won't see them hanging out a lot.

In all situations  there is a reason why someone wants to be your friend.   money, drug friends, Friends with benefits,One likes the other, perks and of course a personality thing. Which if a girl is friends with a lot of guys, she enjoys the attention, getting hit on non-stop and the works. it's just a bad idea.

don't listen to these guys saying your stupid,your not. people just refuse to see why people do what they do. These are the same guys that Me and my buddies took out there girl when he was out of town. OH babe there just friends, sure I was and I loved the friendship every minute. It's happened so much and I've seen so much ho sh-t going on it's unbelieveable.

don't think your highclass girls are safe either. Those are the ones that act so stuck up until there at after hours and we all know what goes on then . I would have to say they are the worst because they lie about what and who they really are and what they do. Thats the girls that do the worst dirt. 

Find a girl that is honest up front, doesn't care to have all sorts of guy friends. if she wants to hang out with guys on the side why you not around and has a problem with you feeling nervous or untrust worthy of it. she most likely cheats. People on here want to not sound insecure, thats all bull.  Just believe me, I have had way over 100 girls, maybe 200 majority where not to be trusted, thats why I hit it and quiet it. Not that there ho's but if you are looking for a partner be picky because you don't want to be the unlucky husband.

It's all about what you want, if you don't feel comfortable about a girl having tons of guy friends, don't date her. I wouldn't either. I have a lot of reasons why. I know a lot of girls like this and it's always the way they are. Maybe 1-100 is not on bull the other 99 are.

 

I've never done all of that stuff,but I agree with what your saying. It fits with why I voted for the first one. lol