I understand you points of view, but this game is something else, like MGS4 was when it came out, your right do its too early to call it GOTY, if its not I can't wait to play the game that will top it. GT5 will probably not be a GOTY this year, never seen a racing game getting GOTY but GOW3 has some potential if its as good as the second one.
Still need to play GOW3, just finished GOW2 and it was EPIC, awesome game there as well but a little short.