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DonFerrari said:
JWeinCom said:

Whether intended or not, it comes off as incredibly disrespectful.  So, maybe instead of being defensive, reflect a bit so you won't make such mistakes in the future. 

So let me get it right.

When someone assume an offense and offend me back I'm the one wrong? Great line of thought. Whenever I offend you in the future keep in mind that you can't defend yourself, reflect about why you have been offended so you don't give reason for it.

You offending me would require me to care about your opinion, so I'm not concerned about that.

But it depends on the situation.  If as is the case here, people seem to be in unanimous agreement that what you said was disrespectful, then clearly the problem is you.  So if you care about not coming off as disrespectful, then you should think about why everyone thinks you are.  If you don't care, then keep on keeping on I guess.