What is Gender?

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RaptorChrist said:
All of the recent gender debates really bother me for some reason. It almost seems like in recent years if a man wants to be a woman or vice versa, they can just say that that's what they are, and everyone is expected to address them as such. It's kind of selfish, and it seems like an excuse to start an argument.

It only starts an argument if you want to argue with them.  They know how they feel better than I do.  If they want to be addressed by a different pronoun, it in no way diminishes my life to oblige them, so why the fuck not.