What to do when the girl you like just wants to be friends?

[Ganoncrotch]

mZuzek said:

I mean, come on, one of y'all is arguing that Ka-pi should do this or that to get laid with the girl by any means for the survival of humanity, why am I even trying to discuss here?

I'm not saying for the survival of the species, I mean your own family line and that having a kid gives you a blank canvass to paint your beliefs onto so to raise a kid for the future to have your feelings on how they should treat others, I mean there are ways to do that without having a kid if you adopt or take on the care of a child of someone else and try to make sure they follow your life choices and explain to them in a way that they understand why your thoughts on life are good then they'll go on to do that in the future generation. that's why I'm saying your notion of "I don't wanna bone" is grand, but it would by default have to be a genetic trait which will be in the minority because those who hold that trait to the extreme will not have children and won't pass it down the lines.

Absolutely nothing wrong with being a 24 year old virgin btw! As long as you're happy that's all the matters in that regard, I'm sure there are a number of stiff socks in your room that might apply for asylum from there but they are socks so that's their problem, just make sure they're in a separate pile to the ones that go on your feet and everything is dandy.

I will say though, I do sort of agree with the people above who say that because of your lack of successful interactions in this area I would think your advice does come off as that of fiction from rom-coms featuring Hugh Grant rather than actual experiences of life, very rarely do sex based relationships work like they do in the movies, maybe some x rated movies on pornhub or w/e but not things like Big Bang and such where a girl remains a part of a guys life for 10 years while she bones everything else in the city, the reality of the Penny / Lenord relationship is that Lenord would have offed himself hearing her getting drilled by a queue of guys if he really felt that way towards her and really if all those guys knew anything about how close she lived to such an Ex they would insist she moves from where she was and not live directly across from them. I'm just saying TV =/= Real life, at the same time though... I don't think anyone elses experiences are going to exactly match up with someone elses either tbh, romance / sex are very different beasts for different people.